just a lil' vent....

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Registered: 07-03-2003
just a lil' vent....
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Sun, 07-30-2006 - 5:20pm
My parents went out of town, so my bf is spending a lot of time with us at the house. Well he gets a text message last nite...'I'M HORNY HOW 'BOUT I C U', he was even surprised to get a message that late, and he read it and closed his phone when i asked him who that was he said he didn't know and he showed me the message, he erased it, and that was it, i know it's not his fault, it could have been an ex, it could have been a wrong number, it could have been a joke, I trust him, but it just made me feel so bad. I know I get hit on, just a few days ago (i'm a stylist), a client asked me out and I didn't tell bf b/c there's no sense in worrying him about it, it's just it got me thinking well what if he wasn't here right now, would he have responded or called back, and our relationship is perfect he gives me so much security....so why do i have to be so jealous??? I hate feeling like this, maybe if the offer wasn't so direct.

 

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Sun, 07-30-2006 - 8:24pm

I dont know .... that would make me wonder as well.

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Sun, 07-30-2006 - 9:08pm

I think that if the whole relationship is going good, which is what you have been saying, then you dismiss it for now. His reaction was pretty good that he was surprised to get it, he showed it to you and erased it. You might want to ask did he ever find out who sent it and why. But seriously I would forget it for now.

If there are any more "strange events" in the near future then you can worry and have a serious talk.

But I think you will be okay. He can get hit on any time anywhere. And the point is that he is with you and dismissing it.

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