Well R~ You're gonna have to copy and keep that post handy in a file somewhere... because I think one day you will have to remind us again just why you aren't dating LB!!
I can see some of that. But dang- he is just SO right for you in so many ways though! But we all know-
I probably go against the rest here in saying that I'm kinda glad you are not making LB "the man". I'm saying that because if you had real love sparks and real true interest in him you would know. There is no sense at all in "trying" to make someone fit. He feels off because something is not a match. Sure great sex but that Obama Muslim comment would have ill too lol! See he just does
But I have been with "worldly" ones who were a piece of poop in the head and heart and didn't have any relationship skills or empathy or kindness - or all the stuff LB has - he has what it takes to keep the house warm and happy and fun! Rides the bike with DD - that is good - and he looks good in his pic. And you can teach him some worldly stuff I bet?
Yea, I had that same thought. Like maybe he isnt worldly but if he is intelligent and respects your mind enough, he might come around and people become more worldly through travel a lot of the time which he still might do. I just wonder whether if that is the only hang up whether it could be ironed out.... Rebecca - does he date? Or since you say he is mainly contacting you - do you think he is waiting for you to see what a gem he is and is holding out hope that you and he will finally do something past the FWB? I think some guys will give you what they think you want all the while wanting more and hoping you might give in eventually. I just hope he isnt holding himself back a bit -I know you wouldnt want that and I know you arent holding yourself back as you shouldnt. I find that with certain people if they lack some experiences that teach them about the world it helps to look at their ratio of intelligence and open mindedness. If they have a healthy ratio there, they may be on the road to being exactly what you are looking for but in their own time because they led a bit of an insular existence before that didnt yield enough info....does that make sense?
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Ugh, you guys are killing me! lol
Well R~ You're gonna have to copy and keep that post handy in a file somewhere... because I think one day you will have to remind us again just why you aren't dating LB!!
I can see some of that. But dang- he is just SO right for you in so many ways though! But we all know-
~shrimpy
"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.
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I probably go against the rest here in saying that I'm kinda glad you are not making LB "the man". I'm saying that because if you had real love sparks and real true interest in him you would know. There is no sense at all in "trying" to make someone fit. He feels off because something is not a match. Sure great sex but that Obama Muslim comment would have ill too lol! See he just does
I just wonder whether if that is the only hang up whether it could be ironed out....
Rebecca - does he date? Or since you say he is mainly contacting you - do you think he is waiting for you to see what a gem he is and is holding out hope that you and he will finally do something past the FWB? I think some guys will give you what they think you want all the while wanting more and hoping you might give in eventually. I just hope he isnt holding himself back a bit -I know you wouldnt want that and I know you arent holding yourself back as you shouldnt.
I find that with certain people if they lack some experiences that teach them about the world it helps to look at their ratio of intelligence and open mindedness. If they have a healthy ratio there, they may be on the road to being exactly what you are looking for but in their own time because they led a bit of an insular existence before that didnt yield enough info....does that make sense?
Ok girls - i promise to keep all of your comments in my open mind
All right guys.
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