Just a little tease pic for you guys -

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Just a little tease pic for you guys -
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Wed, 06-04-2008 - 8:49am

lol.

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Thu, 06-05-2008 - 12:52am

ITA!


You said it much better than me though.


hey, I like the neat things Rlch says about LB but I can tell she has a different list of priorities and its awesome that she KNOWs what she wants. Cool beans that LB seems fine with the FWB roll, but further than that is not happening and kuddos to rlch for being true to self! (you know I could learn form her!!)


besides- Mr right on EVERY level is out there!


~Pacific~
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Thu, 06-05-2008 - 6:49am

But I am wondering if he is keeping back so to speak because you told him you were looking to date others? I wonder what he would say if you asked him? But maybe there is no point if you are still not sure you would want exclusivity. This is a mysterious kind of thing? LOL!! :-)

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Thu, 06-05-2008 - 7:10am

I never SAID to him that I "wanted to date others" ... we never talked about it, lol.

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Thu, 06-05-2008 - 7:26am

I'm not saying that she should jump on with LB.

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Thu, 06-05-2008 - 7:45am
Okay - Gotcha. In the mean time we will just keep saying WE like him - LOL!!!! And you poor thing you just thought you were going to post a great pic of DD with the bike and him helping her. But I think we all loved that pic so much we had to comment. It is really fun for her that she got to ride with him - they both looked cute. If we didn't know better we would think he is her dad.
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Thu, 06-05-2008 - 8:52am

Just saw this Soonee - Im not offended or pressured - I know they all just want me to have, as we have said, that "Happily ever after". (ok, so me DAD is pressure though, lol)

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Thu, 06-05-2008 - 8:52am
he IS cute though

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Thu, 06-05-2008 - 10:05am

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Thu, 06-05-2008 - 2:31pm

Again I think it wise Rebecca follow her gut on this.


My ex and I were mismatched in our "culture and worldliness" if you can call it that. He was pretty different than me in our political views and basic feelings about a lot of things culture wise. We were raised differently and to be honest- I can relate to Rebeccas feeling of being a bit strange having him known as your man. When ex and I were visitng my parents for example I felt awkward because ex was sort of in the dark ages about some stuff and that did not represent me. My family and friends are up with the times and changes and it feels wierd to have someone as your spouse who is not. A better mathch in the politacal and cultural areas feels more natural and like a better fit IMO. And its hard to "educate" them because they might very well not want to bet "educated" into your ways of thinking. Better to have someone who already shares your ideals.


~Pacific~



Edited 6/5/2008 2:32 pm ET by pacific_sun
~Pacific~
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Thu, 06-05-2008 - 3:23pm

"he isnt educated - I mean he can carry on a converstation, but he's just not ... "wordly"? maybe is the word?


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