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just now dating and lost
| Thu, 06-19-2008 - 12:15am |
I have recently started seeing someone for the first time ever really.
| Thu, 06-19-2008 - 12:15am |
I have recently started seeing someone for the first time ever really.
Hello and welcome!
It sounds like you are frustrated that you are not getting enough quality time with him and that you do not feel as much of a priority to him as he is to you. To me, that is the bottom line and one that he has to sort out in time. Maybe it is just a matter of him planning ahead a little more?
I think you can explain that you would like more quality time. And it is up to him to determine when and how. I don't think you can do this for him by inviting him to a party. His schedule with them will depend on their mom and their schedules and he is probably going with the flow.
Have you talked to him about the time together? I can empathize with him that he is tired from work and the girls. But I can also empathize with you a great deal on the time thing - because that has always been important to me.
Hopefully when the others wake up they will come and give their tips - I am sure that many have dealt with dating a guy with small children and they can offer their perspective and experiences for you - this is not something I have come across as of yet.