Just plain confusion now.. lol

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Just plain confusion now.. lol
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Tue, 05-27-2008 - 12:20pm

What have I done..lol


Ok, this dating thing in less than a week has just gone way over my head.


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Registered: 10-09-2005
Tue, 05-27-2008 - 12:22pm

Read my post...I'm right in there with you on the dating thing.

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Tue, 05-27-2008 - 12:24pm

Hmmmm...well at least it is a "lots of attentive man time" confusion! Could be worse..lol!!


OK...which one is 13 years older that you had the hot hottub date with, Kevin or GQ? I'm kinda pulling for him but then I'm biased!


I love your updates!


:o)

~Pacific~
~Pacific~
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Tue, 05-27-2008 - 12:33pm

I have a song for this


IT RAINING MEN... HALLELUJAH.. IT RAINING MEN.. AMEN...


TALL BLOND DARK AND LEAN.. ROUGH AND TOUGH AND STRONG AND MEAN....


GOD BLESS MOTHER NATURE... SHE'S A SINGLE WOMAN TOO...


SHE TOOK OVER HEAVEN... SHE REARRANGED THE SKY


SO THAT EACH AND EVERY WOMAN... COULD FIND THE PERFECT GUY...


IT'S RAINING MEN!!!


enjoy, Loonybunny

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Tue, 05-27-2008 - 12:46pm

Kevin is the one that is 13 years older with the hot tub, and bike.


May I ask why you are pulling for him??


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Tue, 05-27-2008 - 12:49pm

OMG that is too funny... i am at work reading this and just laughed out loud..thanks :)



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Registered: 08-08-2007
Tue, 05-27-2008 - 12:54pm

I'm dating a guy 14 years older than me. I know- that does not mean it is right for you- but it works for me..


I just find an older guy to be more sure of what he wants. He's done playing games. I find the wisdom and life experience and "seen it all" ways of the world really sexy. I just love the look of a guy in his 40s or fifties.. so much more attractive to me than the young ones!


Plus the whole hot tub date story-- hehe. He just sounds hot! And into you, and that's great. But if GQ is a contender, then of course by all means explore that avenue too :o)


Edited twice to correct horrendous grammatical errors. My head is still full of sinus hell!


~Pacific~
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Tue, 05-27-2008 - 1:02pm

I did read yours.. and I was just amazed of how much we have in common..LOL.


I do have to say ..


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Tue, 05-27-2008 - 1:13pm

I have to agree with you with Kevin.. I do like the fact that he is older and knows what he wants.


And GQ.. i really think we are just going to be good friends.. ya know. I mean we slept in the same bed, and all we did was talk..lol.. nothing happened.. and then I went over his house and the same thing.. i mean we cuddled a little.. but it is just different.. and I can't explain it.


But see I think that is why I like GQ, because of how is around me.


But Kevin.. yeah.. that 2nd date.. hot tub.. and third date on the bike.. yesterday was great.. we went to the beach.. i mean he is awesome..he called me at work today.. totally pursuing me.. i love it.. hehe



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Registered: 08-08-2007
Tue, 05-27-2008 - 1:20pm

I'm all giddy and smiling, reminising about how BE courted me like that in the early days just by reading your post...ahh the feeling! What's really great is when the pursuing and courting feels welcomed because you are into him..rather than feeling smothered because you are unsure.


That's funny about GQ and how nothing happened. Maybe he is being really respectful. Or maybe he feels the same thing you do- good friend potential?


I remember dating a few guys who looked hot hot but for some reason ZERO chemestry between us. Just goes to show there is more to chemistry than model hot looks!

~Pacific~
~Pacific~
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Tue, 05-27-2008 - 1:22pm
I miss being courted. Sigh..............

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