Just sent this to my atty .....

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Just sent this to my atty .....
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Fri, 05-16-2008 - 7:58am

J, I was too upset yesterday, after the mediation, to even think clearly.


The mediator was completely incompetent & it was ridiculous that he was so unprepared. He had no CLUE who we were, or what we were even there for, had never revieved the chart & he didnt even HAVE a copy of the report from Kossof. He read through it, when i gave it to him, in about 20 seconds.


The fact that he stated he saw "no red flags & no concerns" in the letter he literally scanned, & called the info from Dr. K "immaterial to the case", is ludicrous. He clearly has NO experience, or doesnt care, with regards to

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Fri, 05-16-2008 - 8:21am

Hugs to you. This is a lot to go through. The mediator sounds like he doesnt even understand anything. Is it possible to change the mediator.


Good that expressed your concern to your lawyer. Thank goodness for that psyc..he is the only one who seems to make sense.


I am sure everything will work out. Hang in there.


One thing I thought last day was: Taz seems to still be having hopes about you. Is there any way you can completely crush it. Like dont show any kindness to him( no lending $, nothing..). Even if you have to make up a story that you are in a comitted relationship, that wont be bad. At least he would then let you go and focus on his issues and being good to Avery.

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Fri, 05-16-2008 - 8:24am

These are great points, Dance!!

I was thinking, too Rebecca, that the lawyer is probably also inundated with too much paper to read. I would tend to want a face to face discussion to have my questions answered and to gather his thoughts about what is possible with the system?

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Fri, 05-16-2008 - 8:40am

We will see what the atty says about a different mediator.


The psyc talked to me about being as FLAT to Taz as I can.

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Fri, 05-16-2008 - 8:43am
Yeah. But I also know that if i email him the issues - then he can make decisions or get info & THEN contact me with answers.

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