Just an update

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Registered: 01-05-2004
Just an update
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Wed, 07-25-2007 - 9:17am

Well, things seem to be leveling out and I'm down to just one guy. lol

I am still seeing E (the one that found my house and I graduated hs with) because I don't really think he was stalking me or anything. The more I've gotten to know him, the more I know that that wasn't the case. We had a good talk last night and we both stated what we liked/disliked and I brought up the trust issue. Every one of the people he has dated, but one, and his ex wife cheated on him. I told him that that brought up a red flag for me and that I thought he would have trust issues with me. He said he thinks that he was just attracted to the wrong women at the time because I am different from the women he has had relationships with. He kind of had an epiphany in 2005 like I had in 2002 except mine happened when my dad passed and his happened after his wife left him. He is a completely different person, more outgoing, happy, carefree kind of man now which I'm glad! lol

He is very attentive (of course this is new!) and he can spell! lol He has drive and ambition but isn't a butthole in order to get it. There are a couple of things that bother me that I keep in the back of my mind that are going to stay back there until something else similar happens and then we will have to discuss it. Until then, I am going to try and not overreact! :)

The ex cop and his ex wife are history thank goodness! He did send me a text a few days later saying that he was sorry blah, blah. Never responded. Just glad he is an hour and a half away from me!

Other than that, things are just going along and I'm trying not to keep my wall up around myself. Not be too guarded ya know? We are moving at a good pace and I told him that we are moving at a good pace. The best thing is that he thinks so too. We talk/email every day but we only actually see each other every other week and that is maybe 2-3 days then. It's been about a month now. Time flies!

Sorry to ramble. Hopefully I didn't jump around too much. lol

Jennifer

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Registered: 04-08-2003
In reply to: jh12
Wed, 07-25-2007 - 9:29am

YAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'M SO HAPPY FOR YOU and can't wait for LOT's of UPDATES!

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Registered: 05-13-2005
In reply to: jh12
Wed, 07-25-2007 - 1:34pm
Good stuff - keep us posted!