Just when I was going to complain

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Registered: 07-19-2008
Just when I was going to complain
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Mon, 07-21-2008 - 8:22pm

I was about to come here and complain about how when you go out on a fabulous date and then dont hear from the guy. Well

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Registered: 10-07-2005
Mon, 07-21-2008 - 8:31pm

Lol- isn't that always the way?

And don't sweat about the bathing suit thing- just walk out like you're HOT SH*T and he'll think so too ;)

Keep us posted!




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Mon, 07-21-2008 - 8:33pm

Ugg I just did the bathing suit date thing, and yes it is no fun lol. I just knew that from the neck up I looked fabulous and that kept my spirits up LOL.


I have been in mid post before complaining about a guy and he sent me an im haha. Of course that was the last I heard from him too! haha.


"I never knew what real happiness was until I got married,
and by then, it was too late."
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Registered: 10-07-2005
Mon, 07-21-2008 - 8:35pm

Well, he was just a putz! Look what he's missing out on !!!




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Mon, 07-21-2008 - 8:51pm

He's missing out on being my third stooge? My third amigo? My third blind mouse?


LOL

"I never knew what real happiness was until I got married,
and by then, it was too late."
"I never knew what real happiness was until I got married,
and by then, it was too late."
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Registered: 07-19-2008
Mon, 07-21-2008 - 9:39pm

who cares what he was going to be...its his loss! You all are some fantastic women on this board and i'm very happy that you all have welcomed me with open arms. Esp when I complain about something silly.


JL


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Registered: 03-19-2008
Mon, 07-21-2008 - 10:11pm

Just get in the suit and have a good time. I think thats what guy are looking for anyhow. A woman who can have fun and not care so much about appearances. At least that is what I am telling myself. I met the steam room guy just like that. In a swim suit. Hair sticking straight up. Just worked out for 2 hours and didnt care what i looked like. I think he picked up on my confidence and like that.

So go swimming and be confident that you look just fine. Your confidence will overshadow any thing else.

Laurie

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Registered: 10-07-2005
Mon, 07-21-2008 - 10:38pm
Exactly Laurie! The guys are JUST as self conscience as we are!



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Tue, 07-22-2008 - 12:18am

COOL! So glad he called! Yeah, I have a tendency to jump the gun and then the SHIP!

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Tue, 07-22-2008 - 11:03am
Glad to hear he is calling now! Keep us posted. I am laughing about your three day rule comment!! :-)
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Registered: 05-06-2008
Tue, 07-22-2008 - 2:07pm

I go into instant panic mode, too. I always assume the worst. Then I try to understand the "rules" and fail miserably. My New Flame has never gone more than a full 24 hours without contact, yet at hour 23, I feel then end of the world is near. So stupid. He texts back immediately. So why the panic? Probably when it is so nice, you don't want it to end.

Recently had bathing suit problem. What to buy. Solution: I brought my dearest friend, who practically threatened bodily harm if I didn't try 6 or 7 suits of her choosing. She literally stood outside the dressing room door, telling everyone what she was there to do. She analyzed every suit, and made me buy one I would NEVER have bought, but I actually looked pretty good in it.

Now if I could get her to go jeans shopping with me.

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