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| Thu, 07-10-2008 - 3:36pm |
OMG OK...so CP calls today at my office in tears (yes again) and tells me how he needs to talk to me and i agree to call him back since i was really busy at the time. So i give it a good 45 and call back...TBH answers and hangs up on me LOL....OHHHHHH TO FUNNY. SO i call his cell and hes all upset. They have broken up and she refuses to leave the house. She tells him if he calls the police on her she'll tell them he punched her and punch herself...LOL OH GOD....so he crys some more and tells me hes being evicted as of tuesday what is he going to do? He can put some things in storage but would i like any of them...MY THINGS...that he and TBH have been using. Instead of them going to waste and risking losing them and having to start from scratch he wants to save what he can in case he gets a new place...I say yes i know how difficult it is to start over...DID IT A**HOLE. So then i ask about his DS11...what is he going to do? can he spend the summer with his bio-mother (who i wouldnt let have any part of his life when i was there because she was such a LOWLIFE DRUNK) he says no he cant see her she under investigation with child services. Seems she got into a fight with the new bf and he beat the crap out of her in front of him and hes a witness for the state now. My heart broke for this little boy. I rasied him as mine and his father and TBH poisoned him against me and now he just glares at me when i drop off DD for visists. SO against my better judgement i give him all the numbers for emerg services and social services and explained it not a gesture of kindness towards him but for his children and he needs to get his head out of his a$$ and be a good father because hes a really sh***y one anymore. He cried and said im so sorry for all of the suffering i put you through and i miss you...balh blah blah i said you always miss me when you two fight...he went on to tell me he was his best when he was with me...i said really thats not how it uses to play out..i was the to controlling bit** remember??? No i was wrong...blah blah blah...he then tells me how shes nuts and to young for him and i told him he better wake up because he is out of control and about to lose everything. Then he tells me the reason TBH hates me so much is because when they fight he compares her to me and how she doesnt even come close...LOL Boy what they wont say to get what they need.

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((((M)))))
I KNOW you have a big huge heart. You don't want to see anyone down. But CP MADE THIS BED and he has to pick himself up. The thought of him giving you back the dishes and the bedroom set makes me ill. WTH is he thinking.
M, if he was the kind of guy who was working with you as a co-parent, cooperating and getting along with you for the good of dd, then I could see why you would try and help him. But he never helped you, he had the affair, used your things, and never acted like an adult as far as seeing your dd. Now he looks for your help when he is down. Pu-leeze!
Like Shrimps, I do think about his DS. Is it out of the question to tell CP that you care for the boy and if noting else you would give him refuge with you? The state, I believe, would help pay for his expenses of you took him in. Not that you need anymore stress, but
As far as DD and me worrying about her not having a 'daddy'...she has my heart and the love of the entire family and my friends and her little dog. She will be fine...we will be fine!
Yes, you will!! And she will be fine, with all that love from all your family, and especially from you. M you are an incredble mommy and she could never need anything more than knowing you are there for her!
As far as DD and me worrying about her not having a 'daddy'...she has my heart and the love of the entire family and my friends and her little dog. She will be fine...we will be fine!
Your DD already doesn't have a daddy, IMO. What kind of real fatherly things has he done??? I think your DD is FINE without a 'daddy' if THAT is what she would get. She can find male role models in other people other than CP.
Hugs,
~shrimpy
It's never too late to live happily ever after, and always be grateful for those who make our souls blossom.
~shrimpy
"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.
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YOU GO GIRL!!!
He's a piece of work, that's for sure.
I think your heart is aching too much for his son, and that's why you're bothering to talk to your ex at all.
Your daughter will stop asking soon enough for her daddy.
Yeah Moony- teach the girl MOFO!
haha..wouldn't it be just so "cute" if M taught her little sweat pea to say "Bee-otch" so that she would have a neat new little word to share with CPs psycho gf? Oh that's right, she left his sorry butt!
His sister wont call him back or answer her phone for him. As it is shes not answering it for me but she may think its him calling when she sees the area code.
Huhnee, if his own flesh'n'blood won't take his calls, why do you?
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