Is that the Karma bus i hear ???

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Registered: 03-11-2004
Is that the Karma bus i hear ???
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Thu, 07-10-2008 - 3:36pm

OMG OK...so CP calls today at my office in tears (yes again) and tells me how he needs to talk to me and i agree to call him back since i was really busy at the time. So i give it a good 45 and call back...TBH answers and hangs up on me LOL....OHHHHHH TO FUNNY. SO i call his cell and hes all upset. They have broken up and she refuses to leave the house. She tells him if he calls the police on her she'll tell them he punched her and punch herself...LOL OH GOD....so he crys some more and tells me hes being evicted as of tuesday what is he going to do? He can put some things in storage but would i like any of them...MY THINGS...that he and TBH have been using. Instead of them going to waste and risking losing them and having to start from scratch he wants to save what he can in case he gets a new place...I say yes i know how difficult it is to start over...DID IT A**HOLE. So then i ask about his DS11...what is he going to do? can he spend the summer with his bio-mother (who i wouldnt let have any part of his life when i was there because she was such a LOWLIFE DRUNK) he says no he cant see her she under investigation with child services. Seems she got into a fight with the new bf and he beat the crap out of her in front of him and hes a witness for the state now. My heart broke for this little boy. I rasied him as mine and his father and TBH poisoned him against me and now he just glares at me when i drop off DD for visists. SO against my better judgement i give him all the numbers for emerg services and social services and explained it not a gesture of kindness towards him but for his children and he needs to get his head out of his a$$ and be a good father because hes a really sh***y one anymore. He cried and said im so sorry for all of the suffering i put you through and i miss you...balh blah blah i said you always miss me when you two fight...he went on to tell me he was his best when he was with me...i said really thats not how it uses to play out..i was the to controlling bit** remember??? No i was wrong...blah blah blah...he then tells me how shes nuts and to young for him and i told him he better wake up because he is out of control and about to lose everything. Then he tells me the reason TBH hates me so much is because when they fight he compares her to me and how she doesnt even come close...LOL Boy what they wont say to get what they need.

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Registered: 03-11-2004
Tue, 07-15-2008 - 1:54pm
Thanks Pac! A friend just said something very simialr last night. She said M...I know you dont want any of the old standards but listen to me...you couldnt live with yourself had you stayed in that situation. How could you raise your daughter in a house where you are not respected...what groundwork for her life would you have laid down? And i agree 150%...she is adored, she is respected, she is loved and protected. She is my life and my love and if and when/if a daddy figure comes into her life he will be worthy of her love and if hes not then he will be a big old NEXT. For now...its me and the dog LOL...ohhh the poor dog.

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