Kinda bummed!
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Kinda bummed!
| Tue, 09-02-2008 - 6:10pm |
I am a bit bummed. I think I am being GHOSTED. I do not know what the deal is. FTL and I have been doing well. Staying in touch. We both got food poisoning and I did not hear much from him at all which I can understand. Then saturday..I heard NOTHING. Sunday..NOTHING. I even texted him sunday saying I am free would you like to get together and gave him a call. NO RESPONSE. Monday NOTHING. So I am not sure what to think. It is so odd. I do not want to pester. Its not like him. But then is it anything anyone expects when someone ghosts on you? I have never really had this happen so I do not know what to do ugh.

That DOES suck!
ARGH!!!!! Why do men do this? Why do they play these games? I guess, in some weird way, they are doing us a favor. They obviously wouldn't be able to cope with something important if their operation procedure is to run away.
The first guy I dated post divorce at least had the courtesy to let me know by e-mail that it wasn't going to work. As down as I felt, the honesty let me move on so much easier.
I've had food poisoning...it doesn't usually last this long.
"The first guy I dated post divorce at least had the courtesy to let me know by e-mail that it wasn't going to work."
See- that would help sooooo much if people just grew a backbone to do that sort of thing! Make life so much smoother!
Exactly!
I think the problem lies in the idea that the person is going to hound them for a reason... "But WHY???!!??" and no one wants to have to say, "cause you ____" so they just avoid it all together.
It's rude, but true.
Any word from him yet? I think it this case it doubly sucks since the last time you heard from him he was sick. So now you have to worry about him too. I hope you hear from him soon. Unfortunately we are finding out there are a lot of men who arent men enough. I think this is a new thing. I never even heard of this happening back before I was married. If a guy was going to break up with you they just broke up, there was no disappearing.
Laurie
read the book "He's just not that into you"...LOL.. how did the author put it something like "guys will do anything and everything NOT to come out and say they are not interesetd. Instead they do strange things" and then the author proceeds to give examples...
I will never ever understand the whole ghosting thing.