Kissed on the 1st date, how bad is that?

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Registered: 06-11-2004
Kissed on the 1st date, how bad is that?
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Mon, 09-22-2008 - 12:44pm
Okay.
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Registered: 09-11-2007
Mon, 09-22-2008 - 12:49pm

It's only going too far if it's outside your comfort zone.

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Registered: 06-11-2004
Mon, 09-22-2008 - 12:54pm

Girl, I did.

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Registered: 09-11-2007
Mon, 09-22-2008 - 1:03pm

He says he wants a serious relationship. But hey he could also just be trying to get laid. HAHAHAHA!!!!!


SOOO true!

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Registered: 06-11-2004
Mon, 09-22-2008 - 1:13pm
Thanks a bunch
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Registered: 10-07-2005
Mon, 09-22-2008 - 1:27pm

Kissing on the first date isn't bad, if you WANTED that kiss- I've had guys try to kiss me and I'm just not feeling that way!

If you're both looking for a serious relationship and you're worried about him only wanting a hookup while saying that he wants serious, then you can take it slow with him and see if his actions are measuring up with his words.

If you're wanting a serious relationship and not just sex, then no sex until you've had the exclusive talk. Keep your dates out of the house so you feel less pressure to have sex.

And by the way, 3 yrs is nothing :)

The boy

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Registered: 08-28-2008
Mon, 09-22-2008 - 1:33pm

I think a kiss is fine! That's me, and we all have our own "rules". But in my experience id you're feeling it..and the sparks are there, its just a nice way to really have a great ending to a date :o)


Don't worry about setting up expecatations. He's a grown man so he is mature enough to understand that kissing will be all you are doing until you are ready for more than that.


Enjoy the sparks!!


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Mon, 09-22-2008 - 2:26pm
You guys have all been great and thanks for the support.
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Registered: 08-28-2008
Mon, 09-22-2008 - 2:52pm

Great! And now you are OBLIGATED to get back here and post your update lol!!! We'll be waiting ;o)


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Mon, 09-22-2008 - 3:28pm
lol.