Laying it all out there, open and honest
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Laying it all out there, open and honest
| Mon, 06-23-2008 - 3:35pm |
Guys, I've been doing a lot of thinking these past couple of days and I emailed one of you what was on my mind and thought you know what?

I believe in self validation too.
I think it is nice that he called and he is willing to work on things and that it matters to him that you put your kids first and are open. So why not give a second chance - especially with the explanation of the dinner? Keep us posted!!
The only thing I would really question - just put a "watch this flag" on it - is the comments about the flirting. Because if he was being funny that is okay - but if he does that often maybe not?
I don't think you should come down too hard on yourself for not opening up - that is something he has to earn. I would always rather read that than the other way around. Because time tells you a lot - it is all in what they do - not what they say. I think it is rlch who says - when a person SHOWS you who they are then you should believe them.
As you know I totally understand needing to take the time off even