LB is feeling his oats ... Mark? roflmao

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LB is feeling his oats ... Mark? roflmao
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Tue, 01-29-2008 - 11:13pm

So, girls, I had a nice conversation with our friend MARK tonite

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Wed, 01-30-2008 - 11:59am
I am completely anti-touch by any male other then a commited relationship. Creeps me out. That is why the no kiss rule when dating. Also the reason I don't hug guys, including my Dad. Wit Tracy we air kiss each other.
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Wed, 01-30-2008 - 12:07pm
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Wed, 01-30-2008 - 12:27pm

That is good to know, that guys can turn off the horemones when it comes to women who are friends. Do you think all men can and do? Just wondering, because this was hard for me to swallow when I first started dating Blue Eyes. He has a ton of friends, some are women. Some are Ex girl friends. I had a hard time understading that feelings were no longer involved.


So it is confirmed..a guy can relate to women without the need to read signals, flirt and be looking for more? !!


I have a lot of guy friends and the thought of anything more with them never even crosses my mind. But I always thought that was

~Pacific~
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Wed, 01-30-2008 - 12:28pm

Can you explain the 'no kiss rule' for me?

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Wed, 01-30-2008 - 12:35pm

There is that safelty factor with gay men. I found myself attracted to gay men for years (pre-marriage) without knowing they were gay. The town I grew up in was pretty conservative so if you were gay you kept it to yourself. So I never knew they were gay. My best friend was Mike and I was really attracted to him, I found out later that he was gay. Same thing with a co-worker in my twenties. He was so nice to me. I guess I felt subconsciously safer somehow..


My brother came out of the closet in his twenties after several disaterous relationships with women. He has been with the same partner for 15 years now, and I love them both.


It's great to have men in our lives who can be objective and great friends! Not to mention they can give great advice on men and also tell me when something I'm wearing looks hot or NOT, lol!!


~Pacific~
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Wed, 01-30-2008 - 12:35pm
Well, since I a huge dater. I don't kiss on the first three dates until I know we will see each other after the third date. If I did that, I'd probably have a disease by now after hundreds of men that i've dated. However, three dates with a man is rare in comparison to how many I have dated. Therefore, the 4th date is the first kiss. The third date is a hug to show I"m interested in a 4th. However, the 1st two dates are no go's. You don't touch me, don't make a move, don't even brush up against me. I've been known to slap or punch someone for violating my space. I clarify this with all my dates before meeting me. It's time to get to know you, not get physical in any way with you.
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Wed, 01-30-2008 - 12:54pm

This is an intriguing idea!

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Wed, 01-30-2008 - 1:00pm

No, I've never had a man tell me to take a jump.


If I met them online I would tell them casually in email conversation and they would ask me questions about it. BUT when I ask them if they would think it was groess to kiss someone who may have kissed as many as 200 men in her life, the answer is yes. Soooo, although they think they are the "special" guys that deserve the 1st date kiss, they respect that I don't. Not to mention, it intrigues men to find out I don't touch at all. It's kind of the mystery behind the whole thing. Makes them realize I'm just not someone that is easy. So I figure. I once had a guy that after the third date, kissed me unexpectedly. That was the church guy. Upset me. Didn't ask, didn't anything, just decided he didn't want to wait a 4th date. Needless to say, he didn't get a 4th either because of it.

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Wed, 01-30-2008 - 1:00pm

I cannot say I represent all guys about keeping in my pants.

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