Leaving on big trip tomorrow

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-01-2007
Leaving on big trip tomorrow
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Thu, 06-26-2008 - 10:36am

with my BF who I will refer to as Builder from now on (lol gotta have a cute nickname).

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-08-2007
Thu, 06-26-2008 - 11:38am

Have fun!!! Relax and and keep in mind we all need our get-aways. Your kids will appreciate a happy, post vacation mom. Have a great time with Builder and I hope the trip to meet his familiy bring you even closer together. I know how scary that can be but I bet they will love you! Are you packed?


Looking forward to a good update in 10 days!!


Enjoy!!

~Pacific~
~Pacific~
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-11-2007
Thu, 06-26-2008 - 12:03pm

Have a WONDERFUL trip!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-13-2005
Thu, 06-26-2008 - 12:21pm

Have fun and do not feel guilty - a trip away is sometimes good to help the kids be more independent and appreciate you - and for you to have a fresh start when you come back - and it forces them and their dad to spend time and nurture understanding. Good things will happen for ALL involved. And the webkinz are a great idea! Although I bet they stay in their suitcase and are forgotten - and that your kinds come home with a great story.

You must come back and tell us the story with Builder and his parents!

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-01-2007
Thu, 06-26-2008 - 12:39pm

Thanks guys :-)

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-08-2007
Thu, 06-26-2008 - 12:52pm

Welcome to the over analizing club! I've done that forever!!


I've had the same thoughts while dating BE. His kids are out of the house and he was a free bird doing as he pleased when along comes me...single with a child and no money. So I thought sooner or later he would find this to be too much and fly away. Your guy sounds great and he no doubt loves you and the whole package. Enjoy this time and him and his attention and love!! Now drop the worry bags and go have fun!!


~Pacific~