Let go and be happy

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Registered: 09-25-2004
Let go and be happy
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Mon, 05-05-2008 - 10:10pm

I have seen that many people here including myself have had difficulty in letting go entirely of the past.. Actually in completely forgiving Exs and be able to wish them well

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Registered: 08-08-2007
Tue, 05-06-2008 - 2:44pm

I think this must have gotten lost in the wave of new posts...it deserves to be seen!!


Dance- I love this. You sound so centered, so solid, and calm. I can sense peace in you. It is wonderful you were able to let go of the past!


I'm happy to read this post. It sounds to me youare on the right path and I am happy for you...

~Pacific~
~Pacific~
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Registered: 10-10-2007
Tue, 05-06-2008 - 2:50pm

I think the key is to forgive anyone who hurt you and realise that your past should not hurt your future..


Agreed--it's a difficult step but an important one.

April

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Registered: 03-19-2008
Tue, 05-06-2008 - 5:37pm

Dance, that was a great post. Thanks for posting it. Interesting. Now I want to go hiking, learn yoga and read books.


Laurie

anonymous
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Registered: 03-25-2002
Tue, 05-06-2008 - 11:19pm

I agree 100%... that's why when i remember the hurt from my ex.. i also remember to say i forgive him and i forgive myself... and i even say a prayer that God forgive both him and myself...


Forgiveness is both a process AND an event.. just because we say it once.. doesn't mean we don't say it again and again and again... I've learned that every time I remember the hurt... I must also remember to forgive... and it's okay to have to repeat myself...


Yes, it is empowering!


It's does wonders for my spirits... and i am able to move forward...


Loonybunny

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Registered: 09-25-2004
Wed, 05-07-2008 - 8:45am

Thanks Pacific. You are so sweet.


Yes I finally feel that I am indeed on the right path. Feeling better each day. Thinking more about Biker with this clear head (finally) now that he is not around all the time. Poor thing has a cold .. But getting better. HE always wants to see me. Last evening me came to see me after work. Before he came I was reading some steamy stories in the Fantasy board..lol.

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Registered: 09-25-2004
Wed, 05-07-2008 - 8:47am
Thanks for your kind words, April. Yes no rush for wedding. But now that I am in my place, I miss our time together. He told me that his house is now so lonely with out me. But I wont go back for a while.
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Registered: 10-30-2004
Wed, 05-07-2008 - 8:50am

I love Yoga too.

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Registered: 09-25-2004
Wed, 05-07-2008 - 8:50am

tsunami,


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Registered: 03-19-2008
Wed, 05-07-2008 - 9:02am

I live in western Massachusetts (yuck). My Y has free yoga classes that both my kids have been wanting to do with me. They are teens.

THanks again! You rock.

Laurie

anonymous
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Registered: 09-25-2004
Wed, 05-07-2008 - 9:03am

Hi isysmoom,


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