Let's say......
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| Tue, 05-27-2008 - 4:45pm |
.....that your boyfriend (or girlfriend for you guys) of oh, about 1.5 years had a nasty wench ex FWB that would call him and talk inappropriately, creating drama and always trying to wedge her big broom butt into your relationship. She started calling again like three times a week...and calls him at WORK (no doubt because that is when she can get him without any worry that you are there, as you would get upset...go figure). Let's say that you had a conversation with said boyfriend about 10 days ago and he agree to tell her to stop calling him. Boyfriend said he would tell you when the conversation with wench happened, which he said would be "next time she calls me".
So 10 days later no word about wench calling, therefore no word about the "stop calling me" conversation. You call boyfriend at his work this morning and his line is tied up. You call back a while later and mention how busy he has been at work. He says yes, very busy. You ask if he has been doing a lot of work on the phone, he says no, why do you ask. You say, because your line was tied up for a while. He gives no explanation, only says he's been real busy and then asks about my day. You are very curious (OK..suspicious) because of the past and because no word yet on the conversation he was to have to end the calls.
Would you ask him directly? For example: "So has (wench) called you lately?"
Or would you not say a word and just keep waiting for him to say something?

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Hey Pac Sun - I am late to the table but just wanted to offer my ((((hugs)))) and support.
He wants to be the "good guy", unfortunately that would be at the expense of your trust in your relationship.
I could not have put this thought into words any better. You are exactly right! He does not interntionally hurt anyone but ends up hurting me anyway through ommission and passivity.
Thanks for your support :o)
Soonee-
Can you tell me where on that link I can find the clip? I came tothe page but can't find the clip.
thanks!
I went back myself this morning and there are so many clips I couldn't find it back either!
Thank you :o)
I browsed around, too. Good stuff in there.
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