Life is Just a Big Ole Roller Coaster!

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Registered: 04-09-2003
Life is Just a Big Ole Roller Coaster!
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Thu, 04-27-2006 - 10:34pm

Well...last night I checked my mailbox and pulled out a letter from the slime bag, sexual harrassing, butt hole of a lawyer that I used for my divorce and R/O. Needless to say, he's suing me for $1375! I was so furious. The divorce was supposed to be paid in full, but now he's added on $750 in extra charges that I don't even know what they're for. In addition, the r/o that he agreed to do for free is now a big whopping $695. I paid Mr. Attorney $100 last month that he neglected to reflect on the charges too! I had gone into his office last month and worked out a payment agreement w/ him that I would pay up to $100 a month until the rest of the bogus charges are paid. Well...I guess $100 wasn't enough for him. Now, I have until May 8 to pay everything in full or he's taking me to court and garnishing my wages! I only make $2.13 an hour plus tips, which varies every day that I work! If he would've let me pay him like he had agreed he would've received a lot more than what my check is every 2 weeks!

I was so down in the dumps with everything. Not only that, but my exh called my case worker, lied to her and told her that I made $6.00 an hour plus tips, so they cut off my t/a, food stamps, and medicaid for my daughter. Now I have to deal with all of this and take all of my earning reports, check stubs, and what not to get everything turned back on. I mean, I haven't had groceries in my fridge for almost 3 months. We've been eating at my mom's and my granny's for dinner, or I've been bringing stuff home from work (since it's free when I work). The only thing in my fridge at exactly this moment is milk, cheese, and a cherry coke! How could they take his word w/out calling my employeer or even talking with me???

Anyway...on a brighter note: Leah's head is getting much better. The stitches were taken out not too long ago, we've been using the mederma for scares, and it's healing pretty well!

C/S enforcement has opened a case against my exh for not paying c/s. As of now he's $3500 behind and hasn't paid one dime since May 2005.

I will be singing the nat'l anthem at the PBR in June and I'm so excited!

I will be singing the nat'l anthem at the rodeo in August.

I sang a song at a wedding Sat. night and a guy gave me $100 (which I used to buy diapers, milk, and gas...lol)! I was so shocked that a complete stranger would just give me 100 bucks. I didn't want to take it, but he told me that it was an insult to refuse, so I took it...lol!

Other than the roller coaster stuff...lol...I'm getting by, working hard, taking care of Leah, and taking EVERYTHING at a snails pace with crush. I'm still seeing the doc too, although I really only see him as a friend type of thing. However, I'm not going to limit myself to just crush at this point - just see where everything goes!

Hope everyone's week went well!

Kait

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Registered: 10-07-2005
Sun, 04-30-2006 - 10:06pm

I think the doc needs a little more than being told to back off, he needs to be told that you're having fun DATING him, but in NO WAY do you see a future there with him! For him to send you messages asking if you love him- that's too much! Drunk or not, he's crossed the line and you need to set him straight AND stop dating him. He's getting too much of a mixed message for some reason and you need to end it.

When do the stitches come out of Leah's head?




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