A little creeped out by this one...
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| Sat, 09-18-2004 - 4:14pm |
We have a great policy that would take care of the others if one of us died.
Of course, if Shane passes, he has nothing to worry about. I'd have Dylan and our baby and would always be there for them. But I was thinking. If I passed, Scott would get Dylan and I doubt he'd ever allow Shane to see him again. Even though Dylan would have a sibling through Shane. There really would be nothing Shane or I could do to insure that Shane got to be a part of Dylan's future. It bothers me.
Shane is a wonderful addition to Dylan's life and has provided stability and so much love. I can't imagine that Dylan would have to miss out on time with Shane if anything happened to me. Plus, my family would be out of the loop too as Scott would make sure his man-eating mother got the majority of the benefits and my parents would get no time.
How can I ensure that my family and Shane get to continue being in Dylan's life if I were to pass on for any reason? Or is it out of my hands to get an order for visitation should something happen?
Anyone know? Who knows what tomorrow will be like? And the conversation I had with Shane really made me think about Dylan's future and what kind of life he'd have. I'm afraid the people I love will lose their relationship with my little boy.
Sorry to bring everyone down, but it did cross my mind and I had to ask if anyone else has thought about this?
Mel

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