LITTLE green moster

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LITTLE green moster
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Tue, 11-25-2008 - 2:08pm

Just wondering if the little green monster ever creeps up and gets you. If you are seeing someone, long term or even just dating them. Have you been jealous or insecure?


I say LITTLE in this case because I have a new story but its not even really an issue. I just wonder what you all would think.


I'll start by saying BE is honest to

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Registered: 08-28-2008
Wed, 11-26-2008 - 6:01pm

....resisting the URGE


to call BE right now and check up on how lunch went. By all tense and purposes he should be back at his office. Probably went to lunch at noon. I so need to suck it up and just let it go!


Help me be strong. I will not call! I will let him tell me about lunch lwhen he brings up how his day went tonight...right???


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Wed, 11-26-2008 - 6:52pm
WHACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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Registered: 08-28-2008
Wed, 11-26-2008 - 6:56pm

That was a soft, fluffy pink slipper lightly tapping you on the side of your head.

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Wed, 11-26-2008 - 7:01pm
Yeah....ummmmmm....he might like that, LOL.
 
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Wed, 11-26-2008 - 7:53pm

I know how you feel. Well at least I think I do. Its a sticky situation. Our guys are honest and trying to do the right thing but it still leaves us women in a weird place. EMT does the same thing. He see's his ex wife and works on her computer (fortunately she pays him) but they continue like friends. It doesnt bother me but his friendship with his ex girlfriend does bother me.

I think its ok to feel a little weird about your BF and his girlfriend. You sound like you are being strong and dealing with it just fine. I think its ok to voice your concerns to him too.

Laurie

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Wed, 11-26-2008 - 8:06pm

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Wed, 11-26-2008 - 8:51pm

isymoon> I think that in a trusting intimate relationship the "past" needs to be put to rest and there needs to be closure. Personally I think it's not healthy to be having past lovers in the picture when you're moving foward with someone else. It's just too hard as a woman to deal with<

So does that include former spouses?

So does that preclude that you cannot be "just friends" after the romantic relationship runs its course while you are creating another romantic relationship?

I don't agree with that. There are many people who have remained friends with past lovers and spouses and that's the reality for the new woman to deal with IMHO.

Mark





We're fools whether we dance or not, so we might as well dance. ~Japanese Proverb







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Registered: 05-06-2008
Wed, 11-26-2008 - 9:34pm

I have felt the little green monster creep in once in awhile.

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