Little help...kind of silly really....

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Registered: 10-09-2005
Little help...kind of silly really....
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Tue, 04-15-2008 - 11:30am

Good Morning, Ladies (and Gentleman):


Cat
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Tue, 04-15-2008 - 11:46am
I think you are right to go visit him and to suggest it as well. Like you said, it isnt like you are in the beginning of your relationship together and to me the chase is over after a certain point. If it isnt, it annoys me personally because I cant deal with expectations or games about chasing or following or people having to prove something. It just gets aggravating with all of the other pressures in life we face! It is a great thing to reach a point in a relationship where this chapter of chasing is over and you can just pick up cues from one another and try and meet each others needs as best you can. Most people appreciate it when you take the initiative as life becomes complicated so that you can still see each other - it shows genuine interest and a certain amount of flexibility on your part.
Lilypie - Personal picture
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Registered: 10-09-2005
Tue, 04-15-2008 - 12:07pm
That is exactly what I was thinking.
Cat
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Tue, 04-15-2008 - 1:05pm

No offense intended, but your friend is a nitwit LOL!!!

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Registered: 10-09-2005
Tue, 04-15-2008 - 1:14pm

I should have considered the source with her

Cat
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Tue, 04-15-2008 - 1:23pm

Hi Cat-


I'd go with your first instinct which was to go and see him. I don't see that as being

~Pacific~
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Registered: 05-13-2005
Tue, 04-15-2008 - 3:53pm

"it's a give a take, right?"

I agree and think the others here are on target - you two have been dating a while and that is a fun idea and why not?

I mean, if it was only you driving and doing that all the time that could be an issue - but once in a while a fun surprise? Why not!