LOL Look at this match's questions WWYS

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LOL Look at this match's questions WWYS
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Wed, 02-06-2008 - 9:06am

An interested eharmony match (MrTennis) sent me these creative questions last night - these are more creative than the usual canned ones - in Eharmony you have your choice of sending canned questions or making up your own - so he gets a little credit for thinking up ones on his own. I thought they would be fun to mention here. How would you answer them?

1. differing scenario generous multi-millionaire whom you are somewhat attracted and have a fair amount of chemistry or incredible,definite chemistry with one who has great potential,but rebuilding his life. who and why?

2. describe your ideal quintessential romantic date or adventure.

3. rate yourself in the affection department.

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Wed, 02-06-2008 - 9:59am

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Wed, 02-06-2008 - 11:00am

Soonee
I have the opposite take on Question1. He's gone through a divorce which socked his net worth but still has good income he's wanting to protect from "goldiggers", which he perceives his X to have been.
Generosity is a character trait that is a biggie for me, regardless of a guys income. Men who perceive all women to be motivated by a guy's wallet are men I avoid. Way too bitter. God bless the child who's got her own, I've got my own and am not looking for a meal ticket. I find it insulting to my integrity that a guy would assume that's all I want from him.

QB

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Wed, 02-06-2008 - 11:07am

I always preferred guys who went through the trouble to create their own questions. The questions reveal more about the guy and what is important to him. See my post to Soonee for my take on question 1.
The second question, though I've been asked quite a bit when I did Match so that one is not so original. My answer was always a private cruise on a sailboat in the Aegean.

QB

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Wed, 02-06-2008 - 11:19am

I prefer it when they ask their own questions...it show an extra something when they make the effort!


#1

April

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Wed, 02-06-2008 - 11:28am

I tend to be cynical myself.


I don't like Questions #1 or #3 for I don't believe that really reveals too much about the other person.

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Wed, 02-06-2008 - 11:43am

Soonee, can I go on a date with you?

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Wed, 02-06-2008 - 11:55am

Sure!

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Wed, 02-06-2008 - 12:54pm

Oh these are great questions! I give this guy an "A" for his creative questions and it's obvious he's pretty bright. Will you be answering him?

~Pacific~
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Wed, 02-06-2008 - 12:59pm

Me too, me too!!!!!


I'll even go dutch!!!


~Pacific~...jonesing for some prime rib abd red wine now.



Edited 2/6/2008 12:59 pm ET by pacific_sun


Edited 2/6/2008 1:00 pm ET by pacific_sun
~Pacific~
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Wed, 02-06-2008 - 7:01pm

Oh my - you are GOOD!!!!!

I am having such a laugh at all of the comments here. Pacific - you are such a positive gem. The next time I get stuck I am going to email you!!

I think I mumbled or typed something on question #1 about door #3 (meaning none of the above!) - because I want someone stable like me - am not after money but at this point in life starting over would take too much focus. And really that is true - I want to get what I give.

The thing, too, is that a guy starting over is not going to want a relationship - DUH!! That guy doesn't have a clue. One of those types would want a date and relationship until he got one and then he would ghost.

Somewhere I have to write -no more drama please!

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