So from I read from your posts is that you are the one who is doing the accommodating. Plus you won't even get engaged (with a ring and a date) until you will continue to accommodate, i.e. move in with him.
You have painted a picture of a pattern of how you have decided to be with him. You accommodate. You change your life around him hoping he will commit.
Read back what you have posted here and you can decide if that is the type of relationship and life you want with him.
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I believe we all have the answers and wisdom for ourselves.
I did an LDR thing and it was nearly impossible.
JH
Well, my answer will be a bit different than Mark and Tiara, but in the end the result may feel the same.
Hi Gal_lalala, welcome to our board.
You've had some great responses, and I'm sure they have validated everything you've felt.
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Honestly I don't know how you've managed this long.
Isysmoon,
I know!
So from I read from your posts is that you are the one who is doing the accommodating. Plus you won't even get engaged (with a ring and a date) until you will continue to accommodate, i.e. move in with him.
You have painted a picture of a pattern of how you have decided to be with him. You accommodate. You change your life around him hoping he will commit.
Read back what you have posted here and you can decide if that is the type of relationship and life you want with him.
Mark
This is the point where I would be digging in my heels and requiring him to step up to the plate.
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