Major mess up
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| Thu, 03-01-2007 - 6:47pm |
I majorly messed up on this one! I am a 30yr old mom, who asked for advice about a month ago on talking to this guy, I met online through eharmony. Well, I did start talking with him. Problem is after I showed him my picture, he didn't call/e-mail like he did before. Sometimes he would e-mail me a lot. Now, he won't ever again! I got very upset and asked him what his deal was, he said he was busy. I have read he is not that into and "busy" means really not interested. Why would he say that it isn't that, or this that he is just busy? Why am I so clingy and jeolous and don't even know this man.
In my anger, I told him I wasn't ready for a relationship and he got mad, now he hangs up on me. I am through with men. I am not ugly,but every man I showed my picture to on eharmony always disappeared afterwards.
I GIVE UP!!! LOL

Chin up!!
There are tons of weirdo guys...I think it just takes a lot of sifting. I'm fairly new so I'm just going off my limited experiences but I had no idea guys were so weird!
Chalk it up to "these are just the weirdos to the guy that really gets my heart pumping!"
Good Luck...nice to have you here!
Christy, don't give up on dating. It doesn't matter WHY he isn't into you, he simply isn't anymore. Don't call him, write him, email him, text him.... try to stop thinking about him completely.
I never had any success at all with eharmony- and OLD is hard in general. Maybe try another dating site, or maybe give up OLD for a while, but don't completely quit dating. The right guy for you is out there, you just have to find him.
Easier said than done, I know, but at least we're all in this together!
Moody, giving up on OLD for a while, but not on dating
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