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making nonexclusive work for me
| Thu, 11-06-2008 - 10:15am |
yes i know i need a ruler hand slap. I met the next hottie last night. That would make him Hottie5 but i hesitate with that nickname cuz you all might give me a hard time.
so i guess i'm less impressed with myself now.. lol
let's just say he's

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LOL....you go girl...
Loony Loony Loony...what is it exactly that you want out of someone? Girly i thought i was impatient, you dont give the manure time to saturate the dirt to see if anything is going to grow. Stop trying to miracle grow your life and sit back and relax...breath...let things grow. You move to fast through life you are gonna miss a lot of little things along the way. you're worth the little moments Loony not just the big ones!
Thats all...Forest Gump retreating to her cave again.
(((HUGS)))
M
No hand slap from me!
I agree that if MM doesn't want exclusive then you shouldn't sit around waiting and hoping he'll change his mind: get out there and date!
But dating another guy without long term potential, are you sure you TRULY want that?
I know you like the hotties, and there's nothing wrong with that to LOOK AT, but you have to step back and look at the situation here. You're 36 and have 5 children, you have a wonderful career and a lot to offer. What is the focus for you? A romp in the hay with a young hottie or a solid relationship that will become a family?
Hmm Al some how yours sounds better than mine...LOL but thats what i was getting at in a round about way...you know the bit about the romp in the hay...LOL I think pushing through a backet full of numbers hoping for one to stick with substance is a tough one. I just meant dont push so hard for things so soon out. But like i said yours is much better ;0)
M
Why WOULDNT or SHOULDNT your thoughts be that. If someone says they dont want to see you exclusively or tell you they are pretty sure you woudlnt be a long term person for them, then you DO need to continue meeting & seeing guys. AND, go on REAL dates. & his asking you to go for Sushi IS a "date".
But, i also wonder Loony, why are you so hell bent on finding someone, anyone, to fill your time? Where do you even FIND the time?
~Rebecca, Mom to Averey, 8 & Lotsa Labs!
Edited 11/6/2008 11:20 am ET by rlch (rlch2)
~Rebecca, Mom to Averey, 8 & Lotsa Labs!
And when MM says again that he's confused, doesn't know what he wants, but is "drawn" to you (read: horny for action with you)?
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