making promises....(TG update)
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making promises....(TG update)
| Wed, 04-30-2008 - 7:18pm |
Hello all,
Things are still wonderfulll.. so tell me is this just idle pillow talk or what... he's starting to make promises .... this is week 4... still very early... and as we've seen TG likes to say the sweetest things... but does he mean it...
He said, "i want to take care of you and all your family... including your mother."
I think the guy is

I, too, would be afraid of falling too soon (that is what I tend to do!) but I think you are looking at this in a very healthy way--he has obviously fallen very hard for you but let a little of the getting to know you magic wear off and see where things stand--but again, that is JMHO!
April
wow TG is sweet indeed. Again I am finding more similarities between him and Biker.. Just coz I am also very lazy with cleaning my car.. One difference is that he doesnt tell me often what to do..he just does it..lol
So to weeks back he decided he is cleaning both cars (mine and his) ..mine needed more cleaning..It
Your car story is a HOOT!! You are always so amusing - and it seems that he sees his niche and place and purpose with you.
It is a lot to start - and it is great - we just have to make sure he keeps it and feels this way 4 months from now.
And you are going like a snail - good stuff!! Snails are very good!! LOL!!
Keep us posted!
He sounds like he is sweet, & he is just being honest & letting himself go with his feelings. It DOES make me very nervous that this is all VERY soon to be seeing someone every other day & to be saying all these things. I worry that relationships that start like this, tend to fizzle. BUT ... who knows?
Nearly all of my past relationships started like a whirlwind... my first three boyfriends when i was a teenager professed their love within the first month.... but that scared me off quickly... not sure if it was real love but they didn't forget about me quickly... i'd still get a random call years later from them and how they still loved me.... but i was so clueless about love back then...
My first boyfriend who I fell for deeply, was a roommate (coincidently) to one of my earlier boyfriends.... my BF remembered hearing the story from his roommate being heartbroken when i broke up with him... and he'd say "funny how i told him you were just another girl at the time... but a year later,
RELAX. It's Ok for a guy to try to find some way he fits into your life, some way you need him. You have a career, a bunch of kids, you manage all that without a guy so what do you need him for? Men like to feel that they can provide for the woman in their life. Many are attracted to confident, successful women, but then realize that such women might not have any real need for them- so you can walk anytime, leads to a bit of insecurity for the guy. I know my X had issues with this subject. So now he's with an incompetent, needy woman.
I think TG is just so very into you that he's a bit insecure you'll ghost on him. I think it is a good sign he talks about his hopes for the future. Yes, it is still the infatuation faze, so enjoy it- that part doesn't last forever.
QueenBun, who wishes someone would just take care of her car
~~Tiny
I want
~Karen˙·٠•●♥Ƹ̵̡Ӝ
Thanks for reminding me to relax... what you say makes sense..... i'm seeing him tonight and looking forward to it.... we decided to take some pictures together.... especially one with my broken foot and him carrying me. i'll be sure to post a few....
Hi Loony,
I will sing back up here - continue at the pace that is comfortable for you, and enjoy this time!
SEV and I (in the first month or so) also discussed weekend trips, things we'd like to do together.