Mark update

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Mark update
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Mon, 08-25-2008 - 1:18pm

I have been asked how things are going since I have not posted about my life lately.

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Registered: 08-08-2007
In reply to: mhash
Tue, 08-26-2008 - 1:24pm

Hey Mark-


I'm happy to see your update. I am glad that things are going nicely with CW. You're pretty honest with yourself and others and there is nothing at all wrong with desiring chemistry and fireworks... see where this goes and of they develop. Let all the others get out of your mind and see if chemistry develops between you two. I do want to add my 2 cents.. that if you find your never feeling "it" like you wish to, I would caution you not to forge the relationship and settle for it. I'm saying that because that is exactly what I did in my marriage. My ex was my best friend, faithful, totally accepting of me, and I knew he loved me. But the mutual feeling of chemistry was never there even though I wished it to be. I eventually had to be true to myself and had to go and find an exciting love with real chemistry after our divorce and I vowed to never get involved with someone who did not "turn me on". I know it sounds shallow but I'm the kind of person who needs a deep physical attraction as well and emotional one.


On a funny note- BE used to describe me a lot like you describe CW. When we first got together he called me "solid", stable, and he has always loved that I am accepting, friendly and open with him. He admitted that he was less sure of the sparks and chemistry than I was in the very beginning, but it did

~Pacific~
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Registered: 05-06-2008
In reply to: mhash
Tue, 08-26-2008 - 6:16pm

I enjoyed your update Mark, however ITA with Pac Sun.

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