Maybe a Little Bit of a Pitty Party Here

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Registered: 09-28-2008
Maybe a Little Bit of a Pitty Party Here
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Sat, 10-25-2008 - 12:28pm

Okay, little bit of a pitty party going on here I think.

[ ~*~Lisa~*~
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Registered: 09-25-2004
Sat, 10-25-2008 - 12:49pm

Just one Qn.. WHY havent your changed your phone number.. This texting is a cowards way of hurting and bothering people.. If you dont want to change phone, there IS an option to block all his numbers.. Do it NOW and see how good you feel.


This is not the only guy on the world. So far he seems worthless and jerky anyways.. He is not good for you.


There will be someone who loves you with all you have or dont have.. just give yourself and Mr right a chance to find each other.. go out more often and join some activities..

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Registered: 11-25-2007
Sat, 10-25-2008 - 1:39pm

i agree with dance, PLUS:-


ANY -

mom_uk2socal - Mom to DS22, DS19, DD16

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Registered: 03-30-2008
Sat, 10-25-2008 - 1:41pm

I agree...change your number or block his number...give yourself the POWER back and the ability to move on without him!!


GL...someone WILL want you and you won't realize it while you're letting him mess with you! Big hugs.


Since I stopped responding to my STBX's stupid emails and stopped calling him to help me with stuff I feel very empowered.

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Registered: 09-28-2008
Sun, 10-26-2008 - 6:51pm

You all make me feel so much better.

[ ~*~Lisa~*~
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Registered: 08-28-2008
Mon, 10-27-2008 - 2:53pm

I know it hurts. But..... think of this. At least this last time you had not gone running back to him so when he slapped you figuratively (again) with his being with her. So this time you had protected yourself. You CAN keep doing that. And it will get easier.


I truly believe the only way you will get over the spell is to stop responding at all. When you respond he gets the satisfaction of knowing you still have feelings. I would stop giving him that satisfaction. Door closed, move on, and try hard to stop thinking of him. And if he seems into your brain keep playing back the tapes of him and the skank.


He does not deserve the time of day from you! Don't let him weasel his way into your mind. You WILL be loved by someone else.....I guarantee that....but that someone else can't find you until you have WW towed out of your heart's parking space. And hopefully impounded and keyed as well ;o)


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