MB ended it

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Registered: 04-14-2006
MB ended it
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Tue, 11-11-2008 - 3:34pm

Hey ladies,


It's been a bit since I've posted or read, looking forward to catching up on all the updates.


Anyway, last Thursday MB called me.

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Registered: 08-28-2008
In reply to: michleutz
Tue, 11-11-2008 - 5:24pm

Sorry for the break up.. it always feels bad. But at least in your case you sound well, as if you knew it was coming or at least you know it is for the best? And you have had TG in your parking place anyway...sort of holding the torch?


I hope that you find your happiness by being that 'play-ah' lol. It sounds like you are ready to focus on you and have fun. That is always a good thing to re center.


I'd be wary of TG..sounds pretty wishy washy!

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Registered: 10-30-2004
In reply to: michleutz
Wed, 11-12-2008 - 10:41am

Awwwwwww that totally sucks about MB and TG.

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Registered: 09-28-2008
In reply to: michleutz
Fri, 11-14-2008 - 11:39pm
Well I say you just go out there and be the cutest ski bunny you can be and forget about dumb boys who don't value you.
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Registered: 03-15-2004
In reply to: michleutz
Sat, 11-15-2008 - 9:58am

To me, it seems that he enjoys the initial excitement, but moves on before things can get too serious.


That sounds totally true. But shoot, at age 26, not sure we can expect more from a guy that age?

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: michleutz
Sun, 11-16-2008 - 12:26pm
Awwww sweetie, that totally bites...........BUT it sounds like you are handling it wonderfully and I say go sking.
 
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Registered: 04-14-2006
In reply to: michleutz
Mon, 11-17-2008 - 2:28pm

Thanks for the kind words!


Yeah to catch you up, I'm 33, been divorced for 2 years now, and I have an 8 year old son and a 5 year old daughter.


Anyway, I think part of my problem is that deep down inside I'm really not ready for a serious relationship, so I do keep attracting and going after the commitment phobic guys, then get butt hurt when they don't fall all over me.

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Registered: 03-25-2002
In reply to: michleutz
Mon, 11-17-2008 - 6:45pm

i felt that way after my divorce... i spent many months on these boards just enjoying the good lookers but NOT looking for anything even close to a "relationship".... (i've come so far.. lol). I kinda felt like i wanted to sow my own oats... feel like i still "got it" when it came to the young hot ones. AND with my busy life (and recovering from a bad marraige) the LAST thing i wanted was to feel like i had to think about a guy's feeling or work at a relationship... i admit, i partied for a couple years. I felt whole inside so i didn't feel like i needed to be with a man but they were just fun once and a while. I was the play-ah.. and could totally handle the player types.. In fact when i met a "good" one and i wasn't ready, i think i purposely found something red flag about them.. usually when they came on too strong. I just felt like "what does this guy want from me?" "probably something i can't give", etc...


So i think it's okay NOT to want a relationship but at the same time, don't put your heart out there for getting hurt.. that's the tricky part. OR feel secure enough with yourself that when the quick fling ends (and