MCDAD got in touch with me...hmmmm

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MCDAD got in touch with me...hmmmm
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Tue, 04-29-2008 - 1:18pm

I HAVEN'T called him..(I actually have kept my phone off & turn it on occasionally to call my kiddos)so, it's been a little over a week....he emailed me to see "when do you think you'll have time for my jacket?" I ignored it....So, he emailed me this morning(6:24 am) to see if I was up. I was..but didn't email him. Until I knew he had left for work...so I said yes, I'm up. Well, DAMN..he hadn't left yet..he was running late!! So he emailed me and said "maybe

~Karen
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Tue, 04-29-2008 - 1:23pm

Oh no!

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Registered: 08-08-2007
Tue, 04-29-2008 - 1:25pm

eeeek. Hang tight, girl. Think this through before you take another step, OK.


Can you take this opportunity online here to write down all those things that were bothering you before he stopped calling you? There were some things he said, that did not add up to sounding as if he was ready for a relationship.


What were those things...


It would be good for you to remind yourself objectively of the circumstances and the reality before you see him for any reason. That's what we're HERE :o)


~Pacific~
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Registered: 10-07-2005
Tue, 04-29-2008 - 1:25pm
Tell him you'll mail him the jacket and then throw it away.



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Registered: 10-10-2007
Tue, 04-29-2008 - 1:32pm

If he just wants the jacket then meet him somewhere and give him his jacket or have a friend take it to him.

April

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Registered: 09-01-2006
Tue, 04-29-2008 - 1:36pm

I completely understand your your conundrum, but please do not go to his home.

Rosecolouredspecs
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Tue, 04-29-2008 - 1:41pm

What I have done with ex's stuff is to leave it by their front door.

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Registered: 07-14-2007
Tue, 04-29-2008 - 1:48pm
I am going to chime in with the others in saying please don't go to his house.
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Registered: 12-27-2006
Tue, 04-29-2008 - 1:59pm

Thanks for this everyone... Ok wrote what I want from the man I'm in a relationship with..


My man

~Karen
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Registered: 09-11-2007
Tue, 04-29-2008 - 2:01pm

I have to agree with everyone else.

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Registered: 08-08-2007
Tue, 04-29-2008 - 2:05pm

Very honest and a great start, Tiny. Print that out or at least keep in in your head....remember your truth. It will carry you when and if you meet with or see McDad. Do not sacrifice those basic, true needs! Stand true to who you are ( you know who you are and what you need...you just wrote them!) and do not let a man who is nothing more than FWB to take any priority over your feelings. Stand tall and strong!


Perhaps think about meeting him in a public place as the others have mentioned, or leaving his jacket on his doorstep with a note explaining that you are not willing to meet with him because you simply are not matched up as far as relationship wants right now.


Hugs and best wishes. Please keep us posted-

~Pacific~
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