MCDAD got in touch with me...hmmmm
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MCDAD got in touch with me...hmmmm
| Tue, 04-29-2008 - 1:18pm |
I HAVEN'T called him..(I actually have kept my phone off & turn it on occasionally to call my kiddos)so, it's been a little over a week....he emailed me to see "when do you think you'll have time for my jacket?" I ignored it....So, he emailed me this morning(6:24 am) to see if I was up. I was..but didn't email him. Until I knew he had left for work...so I said yes, I'm up. Well, DAMN..he hadn't left yet..he was running late!! So he emailed me and said "maybe

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Oh no!
eeeek. Hang tight, girl. Think this through before you take another step, OK.
Can you take this opportunity online here to write down all those things that were bothering you before he stopped calling you? There were some things he said, that did not add up to sounding as if he was ready for a relationship.
What were those things...
It would be good for you to remind yourself objectively of the circumstances and the reality before you see him for any reason. That's what we're HERE :o)
If he just wants the jacket then meet him somewhere and give him his jacket or have a friend take it to him.
April
I completely understand your your conundrum, but please do not go to his home.
What I have done with ex's stuff is to leave it by their front door.
Thanks for this everyone... Ok wrote what I want from the man I'm in a relationship with..
My man
~Karen˙·٠•●♥Ƹ̵̡Ӝ
I have to agree with everyone else.
Very honest and a great start, Tiny. Print that out or at least keep in in your head....remember your truth. It will carry you when and if you meet with or see McDad. Do not sacrifice those basic, true needs! Stand true to who you are ( you know who you are and what you need...you just wrote them!) and do not let a man who is nothing more than FWB to take any priority over your feelings. Stand tall and strong!
Perhaps think about meeting him in a public place as the others have mentioned, or leaving his jacket on his doorstep with a note explaining that you are not willing to meet with him because you simply are not matched up as far as relationship wants right now.
Hugs and best wishes. Please keep us posted-
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