Medic: A good laugh for all of you.

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Medic: A good laugh for all of you.
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Tue, 11-11-2008 - 12:25pm

So, I have not talked to medic since that day he called me a miserable rotten person.. remember that? Can't remember how long ago it was but I'm guessing 3 weeks wouldn't you think? Don't make me pull the post! lol


So I'm sitting here minding my own business and I get a text on Sunday.. (LOL)..
"I don't know what to say. I've exhausted all efforts with you.. its over Michelle"


Umm... k? LOL


I was very nice.. I replied with "I'm sorry, I thought we were over for a while now."


So a few text msg's go back and forth and he wants to know where we went wrong. I simply told him that he was never there for me when I needed him, and it was very lonely dating him. He of course challenges me saying thats not true... I was always there for you and tried to turn this all around on me. So I text him with...


"You're always there for me? Thanks for wishing me well on my birthday then"


SILENCE... not a word from Medic since lol. What the heck he's dumping ME like how long after the fact? Wow, I got a kick out of that one haha.

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Registered: 09-11-2007
Tue, 11-11-2008 - 12:36pm

One word...


CLUELESS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Registered: 09-28-2008
Fri, 11-14-2008 - 11:04pm
OMG makes me wanna call my ex hubby and tell him we are divorced.
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Sat, 11-15-2008 - 9:45am
OMG, Big old LOSER!

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Sat, 11-15-2008 - 9:45am
Bahahahaha!

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~Rebecca, Mom to Averey, 8 & Lotsa Labs!

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Registered: 05-06-2008
Sat, 11-15-2008 - 12:32pm

How is not being in contact with you for three weeks exhausting all efforts?

He must have some amazing conversations with you in the past couple of weeks...IN HIS HEAD!!!!

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Sat, 11-15-2008 - 10:35pm
What a GOOB!!!
 
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Sun, 11-16-2008 - 3:35am

<He must have some amazing conversations with you in the past couple of weeks...IN HIS HEAD!!!!>>

ROFLOL Just brilliant startover!
Obviously doing nothing is extre,ely hard work for the man! ;o)
TJ aren't you glad you've *nexted* him!!! LOL What an imbecile!

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Tracy

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Registered: 07-28-2008
Tue, 11-18-2008 - 8:33am

So after a long 12 hour shift.. I had about 15 mins till I got off work this morning and who decides to show up with a patient? Ahh... Medic.


I can't go back to this guy ever but props to him for stepping up this morning. Unfortunatley its all way past due. He asked me to walk with him to the ambulance so I sat in the back while he cleaned up and he talked about us putting pressure on one another, and how he never gave me the attention I deserved, and how much he messed it all up and he's sorry. Said he thought about me alot.. and was wanting some info in return I just didn't really have any for him ya know?


We walked for coffee and he was trying to be affectionate in the hallway of my work? Mr. discreet don't tell anyone we're dating was putting his arm around my shoulder, rubbing my neck and people we both knew were walking by saying hello to us.. so that was kind of odd?? Like I said.. he's giving a lot this morning just WAYY to late. So in the cafeteria while fixing our coffee I got a whispered "I miss you" and once again I mean.. what can I say ya know?


So in the end he asked me out, and I said ya know.. that didn't work for us. How about we just try being friends and whatever happens down the road happens. But you and me dating just was not a good mix. He agreed, blamed it all on timing. I said maybe yes maybe no.. but for now friends.


I feel like I'm to nice sometimes... but there was nothing in me that wanted to be cruel or a btch about this whole thing.. ya know.


Honestly, it was flattering.

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Registered: 05-06-2008
Tue, 11-18-2008 - 4:20pm

STEP BACK FROM THE MEDIC. Honestly. My ex was very much like this...spew all sorts of nasty stuff at me, saying the meanest things, then the next day "all better!" So for 18 years, I put up with the "you're this, that, and the other thing..." "It's your fault..." because of those "sweet" little moments between.

Those are the drugs that keeps you putting up with the verbal abuse. Not to say that he is abusive, but the tone that somehow you are the reason if this relationship does/does not work well is how it all started with me.

It may be flattering to have someone show interest in you, but please look at his track record with you, ok?

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Registered: 07-28-2008
Tue, 11-18-2008 - 4:34pm

lol no.. there is no going back to the medic ever. When I think of long term with him the word "dysfunctional" flahses in my head in pink glittery neon! LOL


I got a text today too while I was sleeping about how amazing I looked (after my 12 hour shift I looked like arse LOL) and how he missed me. I didn't respond. I said what I had to say.. not sure what else to do.. trying to be nice.

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