Medic: A good laugh for all of you.

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Medic: A good laugh for all of you.
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Tue, 11-11-2008 - 12:25pm

So, I have not talked to medic since that day he called me a miserable rotten person.. remember that? Can't remember how long ago it was but I'm guessing 3 weeks wouldn't you think? Don't make me pull the post! lol


So I'm sitting here minding my own business and I get a text on Sunday.. (LOL)..
"I don't know what to say. I've exhausted all efforts with you.. its over Michelle"


Umm... k? LOL


I was very nice.. I replied with "I'm sorry, I thought we were over for a while now."


So a few text msg's go back and forth and he wants to know where we went wrong. I simply told him that he was never there for me when I needed him, and it was very lonely dating him. He of course challenges me saying thats not true... I was always there for you and tried to turn this all around on me. So I text him with...


"You're always there for me? Thanks for wishing me well on my birthday then"


SILENCE... not a word from Medic since lol. What the heck he's dumping ME like how long after the fact? Wow, I got a kick out of that one haha.

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Registered: 08-28-2008
Tue, 11-18-2008 - 4:42pm

Wow. You ARE nice.


Because I would texted back "Yes, I look pretty amazing for such a miserable rotten person, don't I?."

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Tue, 11-18-2008 - 4:47pm
Ha! I love it. You should totally do that, lol.
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Tue, 11-18-2008 - 4:54pm
Yeah, I'd reccomend it except that Medic, in a sick, deluded way might find it as a source of flattery and encouragement from TJ.
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Tue, 11-18-2008 - 4:57pm
Heh. You're probably right. Plus there's no reason for her to stoop to his level. Then she'd only justify his feelings that she was a miserable bitch - and we all know TJ isn't that at all.
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Tue, 11-18-2008 - 5:19pm

Back in high school I always told myself I really wanted people to look back and the one word that came to their mind when they thought of me would be "nice". Even the guys who did me wrong and dumped me I always felt like the best revenge would be "wow, but she was a nice girl"


Add to that.. Medic and I do not see eachother at work often, but we do see eachother at work and I'd like to keep the drama clean there.


I can deal with all of this from medic.. the game that he plays the best that I FINALLY learned to play was the guilt game. Wow... "you didn't xyz so that means you never really cared about me.. wow, I was so wrong about you..." OMG he was good at that lol.


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Registered: 08-03-2008
Tue, 11-18-2008 - 6:51pm
I have had 2 dealings with paramedics and all I can say is they may be able to save a life;
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Tue, 11-18-2008 - 7:18pm

My guess is he's delusional.

Laurie

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Tue, 11-18-2008 - 7:22pm

Trying to be nice. I wouldnt bother. After all he has put you through you dont have to be nice. I agree that this is just the sweet in between the miserable. The miserable will be back and you will regret ever knowing him.

Laurie

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Registered: 07-14-2007
Tue, 11-18-2008 - 7:57pm

I understand keeping things cordial on a professional level but I see no reason to be nice to this jerk. I also think it is better in the long run to be the bigger person. But it is also important to set boundaries as to what is acceptable behaviour and when someone is rude and disrespectful there is no need to be nice.

You are too good for this tool!!!




Edited 11/18/2008 7:58 pm ET by msmsavannah
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Tue, 11-18-2008 - 10:37pm

You need to play him "Single Ladies" by Beyonce

All the single ladies (7x)

Now put your hands up
Up in the club, we just broke up
I’m doing my own little thing
Decided to dip but now you wanna trip
Cuz another brother noticed me
I’m up on him, he up on me
dont pay him any attention
cried my tears, for three good years
Ya can’t be mad at me


Cuz if you liked it then you should have put a ring on it
If you liked it then you shoulda put a ring on it
Don’t be mad once you see that he want it
If you liked it then you shoulda put a ring on it

(Chorus)
I got gloss on my lips, a man on my hips
Got me tighter than my Dereon jeans
acting up, drink in my cup
I could care less what you think
I need no permission, did I mention
Dont pay him any attention
Cuz you had your turn
But now you gonna learn
What it really feels like to miss me

(Chorus)

Don’t treat me to the things of this world
I’m not that kind of girl
Your love is what I prefer, what I deserve
Is a man that makes me, then takes me
And delivers me to a destiny, to infinity and beyond
Pull me into your arms
Say I’m the one you want
If you don’t, you’ll be alone
And like a ghost I’ll be gone

All the single ladies (7x)
Now put your hands up

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