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| Wed, 02-13-2008 - 4:27am |
Hi all,
I've wrote on here before asking what to do about
| Wed, 02-13-2008 - 4:27am |
Hi all,
I've wrote on here before asking what to do about
"That seems like a lot of sacrifice on my part, and nothing in return."
YES - you hit the nail on the head. Honey, the more you are with him, the more he is going to make you feel bad about yourself. He is selfish and is not putting your best interest forward, never mind that you have a kid. No matter what you do to please him it is never going to be enough.
You won't be lonely if you dump him. Sure, you might miss him calling and doing some stuff. But I am quite positive that the more time that passes after the dump is the better you feel about the decision. And you know what? The faster you do this is the faster you will meet someone who is delighted to be in your presence and who respect you and all you do and think and feel.
You are so smart and so lucky to get to live with your parents to enjoy their company with your little one and be in your life and save your money.
Put yourself first! Because he is not going to. He is hideous to demand that you move out and take on that expense so he can crash at your place. That shows he is only worried about one thing.
Here's something I wrote for a different board that might give you some ideas on where to meet a group of folks to 'do stuff' with:
~s~
I LOVE MEETUPS!!!!!!!! That is how I met ALL of my new friends!
I have met so many great friends and people. I'm in all kinds. I
I actually have to send one of the DOGS in my group a valentine today because I am kinda secretly in love with him. Dont tell bf....
I have attached his pic so you can understand.
I also want to second what west said. Once you have dropped the stress and energy draining components of being with this guy - you will have so much more time and positive energy. It just starts to help everywhere from the inside out. I think there are always a few rough weeks and then you find yourself just meeting new people and doing more things because you are finally free of the stress.
Good luck to you!
Thanks for the meetup idea!!!!
You're killing me with the cute dog pictures!