Meeting Marine TONIGHT
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| Wed, 12-06-2006 - 12:44pm |
Hi All,
Yikes!! Meeting the marine tonight for coffee at a bookstore. Casual. And a great way to see if we are compatible.
I returned his call last night and we talked for more than 30 minutes (would have talked longer but couldn't ignore the children). I found out he was married before but divorced in 1993. That was good, ya know, to know he's not a confirmed bachelor. He mentioned that he's had 3 long term relationships since then... even dating a women with 5 children. And I said, did you count the children in my pictures? I have 5 children. I told him candidly that I know it scares some guys away... I don't hold that against anyone. He said it's not a big deal to him. He wants to get to know ME. He said he respects single moms. And he spoke like a guy who has respect... his words were "If you can fit me into your schedule, I would be honored" or something like that. I was impressed with his words.... Then, I had a friend this morning caution me about a guy who says all the right things... Yah, I suppose I'm being optomistic but also cautious. Whenever ya meet someone new, ya never know if they are bullsh**ing.
Found out he doesn't drink because ...basically he quit cold turkey about 13 years ago (the same year as his divorce, i noticed). He asked if that was a red flag... At first I said, no, a person who doesn't drink or smoke is a good thing... But I wonder if that means he was an alcoholic. He went on to say that he doesn't avoid bars or women who drink. He just won't buy them alcohol. Sounds reasonable to me.
So, he actually comes across as a decent guy. Perhaps even a "Date Worth Keeping" lol. So now I'm nervous. What if he's hot? What if he's a dog? Aye ya ya. Wish me luck.

Hey, LoonyBunny!
That is so cool! Have a blast tonight!
There is absolutely nothing wrong with being optimistic, silly! Just don't wear blinders, but you know that. So, go, have a great time, and I can't wait to read the update!
HappyDays
Wow - it is fun that you get to go on a date. I am sure you will have a fun story to report for us!
I think the first date is just to see if you want to have further interest in each other. Look at this one as practice so you don't get too nervous.
The only thing I really look for on the first date (assuming it is blind) is if he is fun to talk to and treats others with respect. I don't go into too much detail about my past - just what we both like to do for fun.
We want details when you're done!!!