Meeting someone for a drink (m)
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| Thu, 11-18-2004 - 12:27pm |
Probably a non-alcholic one too which is great. This guy on Yahoo emailed me and he was so gentlemanly and nice I have been emailing him for a couple weeks and we spoke last night and we get along great on the phone and have similar experiences and family backgrounds. He is divorced with no children. There was a good amount of infidelity in his marriage on HER part - in fact he reluctantly admitted in our 2 hour conversation that he would not "be" with her without a condom because of the lack of trust. How sad. He stayed married to her for 9 years because of his firm belief in it, but after his discovery of yet another affair he said he had it. I guess she was an alcoholic - wasn't when they got married but she just partied and partied and came from a family of partiers.
He is from a large Catholic family (I am not Catholic but...) And has 8 siblings. I have 6. His parents are still married, as mine are. he has lots of neices and nephews like me. He loves children and is sad that he doesn't have any but wouldn't with his ex. He has a good job and just bought a really nice home (2000 square foot ranch and I am familiar with the area - my brother lives near him) He loves his little dogs so much that one has cancer right now and he is giving him chemo to prolong his life hopefully. They are little Papillons (2) :). He loves other animals too. Anyhow, he is just very nice although he doesn't LOOK like my type he is good looking. He isn't smiling in his picture but if you want to see his profile here it is but NO emailling him ladies LOL!
http://personals.yahoo.com/us/personals-1095374833-531205
Tell me what you think. I am interested in seeing if I am attracted to him at all other than as a friend. He works near my home so we are going to meet tomorrow when he gets off (at about 4:30). I will have to leave by a quarter to 6 to go pick up Alyse so that is good - time limited :)
Anyhow, he seems to be in the right place in his life and he seems to understand the way I think/vice-versa. So good signs anyways. And polite ---that is so important. I'll update you after I meet him tomorrow! Wish me luck!
Laura

I love critiquing personals!! My friends always send them to me because they know I am brutal and don't miss a detail.
I absolutely give this one a thumbs up. I cannot find any flags.
Keep us posted!! Make sure you wear something really nice - and a little HOT!! Really take your time to get ready. No sloppy mommy!!
Wow, I like this guy. I usually dislike 99.999999% of male profiles on these internet dating sites. But, I like this guy and his picture too. I hope you hit it off with him and you like as much in person as you did on the phone.
Good luck and keep us posted. (LOL, remember what you said about making him wait. Let him woo you)