met someone but....
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| Thu, 10-27-2005 - 5:15pm |
I went out friday for my birthday for the first time in 3 years(after having my son), I met this guy, he seems great, not married no gf, asked me, i told him i'm a single mom, brought up how he loves kids and showed me pics of his nephews and nieces, and made it a point to let me know that he's had gf's in the past with kids. Well, after spending that whole time in the club, dancing and then talkin', he got my cell #, and walked me to my friends car, then he called me right away, to ask (another story=) ) if my friend was ok (she got lost), and asked if i was ok to drive because i was going to pick up my car at my friends....we talked until i made it home, and he told me that he'd call me, that he wasn't going to call right away because he's sure i'm busy.....I was like well ok, you can call whenever.....well it will be a week tomorrow, and he hasn't called since, hmmm....i guess he's just not that into me. I think i was getting my hopes up, he seemed perfect, but it's the first time i've been out in years, so i'm sure i'll get over it, if i got over what babydaddy did to me, i'm sure i can make it through dating lol...so what do you guys think?? I know, i know, but sometimes when other people tell you it makes you really see.

Hi Roxanne - welcome to our board!
Dating is frustrating - is about people trying on other people - kind of like shoes. There is no rhyme or reason - only time to tell us what will be.
There is no knowing why he didn't call like he said he would - it could be anything - maybe he decided he didn't want to deal with children and a single mom, maybe he got busy, maybe he just got swept away with you and the moment and then changed his mind or got busy later, maybe he met someone else.
It really doesn't matter what he "maybe did" - because all that matter is that he would call you now. Just chalk up the whole thing to experience - you handled