Miffed, venting, lonely, bummed...

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Registered: 07-28-2008
Miffed, venting, lonely, bummed...
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Tue, 09-02-2008 - 10:45am

I can't remember what nick name I gave this guy.. but a bit of history. The guy I met from my single parents group that was so recently separated that we agreed to just be great friends but we couldn't keep our hands off eachother when we'd see one another. lol


Anyway...when we agreed to be friends I told him: I'm fine with friends, but I'll admit that when you finally realize that you're ready to date, and its not me.. my feelings will be hurt. So I see on his myspace "disapointed" I was like awe whats wrong? He said Debbie cancelled on me. I said who is Debbie? He says my girlfriend. I was like umm ok? Actually I said "Wow, umm ok? I knew I'd feel like this... feelings officially hurt"


So then with Medic giving me zero comfort over my break in ordeal, and not even checking up on me.. then I have HC coming out of ghost mode and coming at me with very obvious sexual motives I'm feeling very very sad.


The break in just made me realize how unbelievably alone and lonely I am. I feel like a good cry is near. I mean, I don't feel like I need a man to keep me happy its just that I am just seriously alone here. My friends are so stuck inside their own bubbles, and my family have all moved away... I'm just sad today, very sad.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-06-2008
Wed, 09-03-2008 - 10:26pm

It's comforting to know that I am not the only one feeling lonely. I think I miss the idea of the last guy because it was so nice to have a grown up to talk to and think about me. Once it was gone, I realized how much I liked and needed that kind of attention, since my ex hadn't been giving me any attention for years.

I think without this board it would be much harder to get through my first post divorce thing, since all my girlfriends live far away.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-06-2008
Wed, 09-03-2008 - 10:27pm
I agree. Being lonely in a marriage is worse than being alone.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 09-04-2008 - 8:26am
T R O U B L E????
 
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-15-2008
Thu, 09-04-2008 - 10:12am
I think we have the beginnings of a nice lil plan here...

JH


This is the true joy in life, the being used for a purpose recognized by yourself as a mighty one; the being thoroughly worn out before you are thrown on the scrap heap; the being a force of Nature instead of a feverish selfish little clod of ailments and grievances complaining that the world will not devote itself to making you happy.


JH

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