Mom dating - kids catching sh*t from dad

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Registered: 10-22-2007
Mom dating - kids catching sh*t from dad
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Thu, 04-10-2008 - 1:38pm

divorced single mom of 2 girls

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Registered: 10-30-2004
Thu, 04-10-2008 - 1:42pm

Sounds like a control issue on the part of your ex.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 04-10-2008 - 2:16pm
I know darling.
 
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Registered: 11-03-2003
Thu, 04-10-2008 - 4:21pm

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Registered: 09-11-2007
Thu, 04-10-2008 - 4:34pm

Hi Texas, and welcome to the board!


I have to agree 100% with Soonee on this one.

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Registered: 06-04-2004
Thu, 04-10-2008 - 5:12pm

Excellent post, Soonee!


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Registered: 05-13-2005
Thu, 04-10-2008 - 5:31pm

Wow - excellent post! I agree with Soonee 100%. When it comes to kids and their activities they have to be their best.

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Registered: 08-08-2007
Thu, 04-10-2008 - 6:30pm

Welcome, texas!


I agree with what's been said here already. I would just add that I would call your ex at some point and remind him not to take his issues with you out on your DD...being a manipulative brat to her to get his way about something YOU do is not healthy to your DD. Don't tell

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Thu, 04-10-2008 - 6:52pm

I have to say I agree. I think your dd is

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Registered: 11-25-2007
Thu, 04-10-2008 - 7:30pm

WELCOME!


I agree with Soonee too.

mom_uk2socal - Mom to DS22, DS19, DD16

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Registered: 10-07-2005
Thu, 04-10-2008 - 9:36pm

Hi Texas, welcome to the board.


How long have you been divorced?


How long have you been with the bf?


While I can appreciate your desire not to allow your ex to dictate what you can/ cannot do- this request is coming from your child in order to keep HER situation calm.


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