"mommy-no one is calling you!"
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"mommy-no one is calling you!"
| Sat, 09-18-2004 - 8:29pm |
Thanks for pointing that out! :(
I really miss him right now. I wonder ifhe misses me - I think he does. Unlike me though he can go out and do something. I am chained to my fate. :(
Laura

Help your daughter out for crying out loud. Tell here it doesn't matter, that mommy is fine and strong and it will all be ok. She sees your state of mind and she's worrying about things she shouldn't have to deal with!!!
And "chained to your fate"...that is a crappy attitude. We are NOT chained to one fate, but we are in CHARGE of it! Quit waiting for Jack to "rescue" you and get your life in gear. If you mean you are chained to your daughter, then you should be glad about that and it's sad to hear you say that. Your attitude WILL translate to her without speaking it to her. And obviously you are right about her being old enough to realize what's going on now. STOP obsessing about him and whether he will call or not. BUILD A LIFE! As long as you wallow in this feeling you will be unhappy. GET YOUR BUTT OUT OF THAT WHINEY ATTITUDE!
If he loved you, you would know it. You wouldn't be guessing!!! I know you won't like what I say and will most likely ignore it.
love to you,
amy
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That is hilarious!! Made my day!!
AMEN!!!!
I couldn't have said that better myself. It was pretty much what I was going to say. ;)
Laura, read that gals story (which was EXCELLENT) and learn to move on and be happy WITH YOU. And Candi was right, for your daughter's sake, because she needs and deserves a mommy who takes care of you both.