Money woes, but SO comes alive...

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Registered: 08-08-2007
Money woes, but SO comes alive...
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Thu, 10-18-2007 - 3:23pm

Just a little venting about a horrible experience yesterday afternoon but in the end, I slept soundly knowing how supported I am. I was kinda floored....


I work downtown and there's NO parking. I had a few unpaid parking tickets (I had not been able to pay them, 40 to 70 dollars each).

~Pacific~

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Registered: 12-28-2004
Fri, 10-19-2007 - 3:03pm
you certainly do....GO FOR IT!
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Registered: 09-25-2004
Sat, 10-20-2007 - 1:10am

YaY! for being bold and asking him. you sure must have scored some big points..


i used to do that with my guy. he is a total gentleman and shy and the kind who feels "never try never fail " in matters of dating..


but he loved it that i just asked him whenever i felt like and he never ever said No. he got so comfortable with me since I dropped all my egos.


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Registered: 06-04-2004
Sat, 10-20-2007 - 10:23am

This thread is so long, I'm not even quite sure just where to attach my post, but I'll just tack it on here to the first one anyway.


First- yay to Pac-Sun for how sweet and caring Blue Eyes is! It's not just cool that he could help you out- but that he isn't tacking on this attitude of "you now owe me" on top of it (as my ex would do for ANYTHING he would do "for me"- even changing the baby's diaper). There's just something GRAND about someone doing something big (or little) for you and not expecting a single thing back. Funny, that when they expect nothing in return, that is when they would end up getting a wealth of love back! I absolutely love how this process just generates more love and trust- when it works that way. And I hate how that process damages relationships when someone holds some 'favor' over the other person's head. That just never works!


So I'm THRILLED that Blue Eyes is just doing this for you, and then not dwelling on it afterwards.


And I'm excited for Moon, too! Yay for the dates and for clearing up the miscommunication! Funny how the odd hurt feelings and confusion of before- was just because of the miscommunication. So I'm glad that got cleared up and without any relationship setbacks, and that things are FINE even though they seemed a bit weird for a minute there! Yay for you! Chalk one up for keeping communication lines open!


~shrimpy

~shrimpy

"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sat, 10-20-2007 - 11:59am
Where is that magic dust, lol?!?!?
 
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Registered: 08-08-2007
Mon, 10-22-2007 - 5:51pm

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Oh so true!!! It's so refreshing and that's exactly how

~Pacific~
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Registered: 08-08-2007
Mon, 10-22-2007 - 5:53pm

****Sprinkling Magic Love Dust on you and everyone who wants some!....******


Thanks for your nice words...I feel very blessed :o)


~Pacific~

~Pacific~

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