Movie Date pending...

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Movie Date pending...
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Mon, 08-13-2007 - 12:14pm

For those who aren't in the "challenge"... I thought I'd expand on my pending date. Here's the reason I'm frazzled.... I don't want things to turn out like they did with "Brian" last October. "Brian" was a guy i flirted with at the karaoke bar. He was cute and I saw him as a friend. Then one night, after several drinks (and I don't normally drink that much) he talked about his vampire costume and neck biting...ya da ya da.. we started making out. I laughed about it the next day like "man, I was drunk." But he took it more serious and thought perhaps we were going to start a relationship. Ooops. We were not friends after that... things were akward from then on...

So, with COOK, I'm slightly nervous that things will end up the same. I always have that guy friend I like to hang out with... he develops a crush... I don't feel the same... our friendship ends much to my dismay. I like Cook. I think he's cute... He's sweet. Reba told me that he was asking about me, and she said, "he has the hots for you." Hmmm... will it turn out akward or not??? I guess only time will tell. I like that he asked me out (instead of just hanging out with me at a bar).

What am I looking for?... sure I'm always looking for the next hottie that I can drool over... But i suppose there is more to dating than that (...i suppose). Like being treated with respect and treated to nice things... developing true companionship...

As for the date, he said he would call me after he gets his work schedule. I'll keep you posted.

Loonybunny

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Mon, 08-13-2007 - 12:36pm

Well I will keep my fingers crossed for you Loony!!!! :)

Jennifer

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Mon, 08-13-2007 - 12:41pm
Cool! So are you using this as man number one for your weekly challenge?
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Mon, 08-13-2007 - 7:43pm
Oh wow Loonybunny - this is good news and so exciting - do keep us posted. Only think about now - don't let your mind go too far ahead.
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Mon, 08-13-2007 - 7:47pm

Whoa, Nellie!

Slow down a little! You're going out on a date (which is fabulous, by the way), not planning your wedding! Think about the date, not the future.

It may very well end up frustrating and awkward. It also may very well end up being a wonderful evening out with someone new that you like. Either way, worrying about it isn't going to make you any less stressed.

Have fun, Loony!!

Moody, who wants to go to the movies


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Tue, 08-14-2007 - 9:43am
Yes, he's counting as ONE... so far.... ;-)
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Tue, 08-14-2007 - 9:45am
well, let me clarify.. COOK is not the hottie. He's younger. He's a cook, after all.... He's not long term prospect... He's a friend that I've enjoy hanging out with and Reba said he has the hots for me. That's encouraging because he's not too obvious... like some guys are all over you that you know they have the hots for you... Not with Cook... But he'll say little things that hint that he's interested... Like Friday night, he was working and asked me if I was coming out again Saturday night because he was off. I said I was thinking about it... and he said if I didn't that he'd be bored all night. Little things like that, but I still wasn't sure AND I wasn't sure if I like him only as a friend or what. So, I think the movie will be a good chance to see....