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Moving a boyfriend in
| Wed, 10-08-2008 - 10:26am |
I have been seperated/ divorced for 2 years now. I have been with my current boyfriend for 7 months.
| Wed, 10-08-2008 - 10:26am |
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It sounds as if he is not ready to share you with anyone.
7 months is kind of soon. Unless your ds has already really attached himself to your bf and they are already bonded. But from the sound of it, your ds is not there yet. And thats OK..he is young and still healing from the divorce. He is still fearful of losing you to someone else. Give him some time and I wouldnt push the issue or make plans just yet.
How does your bf feel? Does he try to bond with your ds yet? How does he feel about your thoughts of living together?
Ok, to answer some of the questions...... He is not moving in now, we are looking at the first of the year, by then we will be almost a year.
I think ne reason for my sons hesitation is his dad, he is having a hard time moving on and excepting that I have, so he does not like the idea of the BF and has sometimes even told my son, to tell me he does not want my BF there, and not to talk to him.
I think having a ring and/or a wedding date is important commitment versus just moving in together. So many women who post on this and other forums tell of living together with the man in no hurry to go the final step of marriage. Women talk about living together for 10 years and counting and keep hanging on hoping for their guy to actually marry them.
I lived with my wife for 3 years and would not live with another again without being married first. Part of the reason is being an example for my children (DD15 and DS19). Even though I would not be surprised if both of them live with their boy/girlfriends sometime along the way.
Mark
I think
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