Mr.RCMP has been officially NEXT'ED

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Registered: 10-24-2006
Mr.RCMP has been officially NEXT'ED
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Mon, 03-17-2008 - 1:06pm

I ended things with Mr. RCMP last weekend. Some things had happened that I was questioning and he was pulling away instead of explaining things to ease my concerns. Some pretty big red flags were raised and albeit job related stress or not. We weren't getting anywhere and I had to trust my gut on this one. Can't say that made it easier at all, but there ya have it. The relationship was 4-1/2 mths long, so not a huge life investment.


So I'm jumping right back in because I don't want to waste energy boo-hooing about it. :)

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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-10-2007
Mon, 03-17-2008 - 1:11pm

Wow... certainly did see that coming!

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-01-2006
Mon, 03-17-2008 - 1:37pm

((((hugs to you))))))

Rosecolouredspecs
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Registered: 09-11-2007
Mon, 03-17-2008 - 3:14pm

Wow - I didn't see this one coming.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-13-2005
Mon, 03-17-2008 - 3:52pm

I am sorry it had to go in that direction - but that is a very valid reason to stamp NEXT on his dating passport - good job. I like to hear when a woman puts herself and kids and feelings first.

We can't wait to hear more of your adventures - keep us posted! Better alone than with MrWrong! And it is a process to sort - that is for sure - not everyone is going to be a keeper.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-08-2007
Mon, 03-17-2008 - 3:59pm

Hugs-


I'm sorry to hear this- but happy that you made a wise choice to follow the inner voice pointing out the red flags. And his desire to not address them and to pull away only proves to validate those warning signs.


I like your energy and spirit to keep going and jumping back in! Koddos to you for your positive outlook- all that is great. Just remember to breathe and honor your feelings over the break, which does not mean you have to dwell in any way, just be good to yourself!


~Pacific~
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Registered: 03-15-2004
Tue, 03-18-2008 - 9:37am
Sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders! Im sorry things didnt work out, but I am SO proud of you for not ignoring red flags!

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