My date
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| Mon, 04-16-2007 - 3:11pm |
I already did this once but I don't know what happened to it. So I will do it again.
Had my date yesterday. I talked to him in the morning and we were supposed to have only had a short date. He was supposed to have a baseball game in the afternoon but the weather was bad and he was sure it would be cancelled and said he would like to take me to a movie as well if I could swing it. I told him sure.
We met for brunch. When we were finished we still had over an hour until the movie would start so he suggested renting and going back to his place. I agreed. I like him OK and feel pretty comfortable with him. We rented "Stranger than Fiction. It was good. I got a shoulder rub and a foot rub which was great. He was a little overly affectionate (kissy) and I told him that I would have to take things slowly.
He asked what I have planned for the coming weekend and I told him that I had plans with some friends Saturday afternoon but nothing else right now. He said that he may be out of town at a coaches workshop but should know either today or tomorrow and would let me know. I like him. Not sure if there is a spark there but he is really good on paper so I will get to know him better and see. But if he is really that busy all the time he doesn't really have time for a R and I will move on regardless. I would enjoy having him as a friend though.
So waiting to see. I had fun and I do like him just not sure if I like him, like him ;o)
Priscilla

Well it sounded like you had a good night and you set some boundaries and he was receptive to that so that was good. I think it's great that you're willing to give things a chance and see what happens. Keep us posted!!!!
~Dani~
The date sounds like it went well enough. I like to go with the flow, and I'm glad you both seemed comfortable enough with each other to do that.
I do agree, somewhat, with someone being too busy, but also keep in mind that it's good for both of you to have outside interests. Being too wrapped up in each other too quickly usually isn't a good thing, so if you're naturally busy that won't be as likely to happen.
I actively look for men with interests that I don't really share- it gives us something to talk about but also makes me more confident that I will not be expected to be someone's sole source of entertainment or the only thing they have going on in their life. I am not willing to give up my interests, either.
That's one of the things I like so much about funnyguy- I have some knowledge of his interests but am not active in them. The same goes for him with mine. This si great fodder for conversation, but neither of us is completely disinterested. I also know that as much as I enjoy spending time with him, he's also got other things going on, which gives me freedom to have other things going on, too. Neither of us is feeling left out or like we don't have time for the other, we just have full lives and compliment each other's very well.
I would say to give this guy a chance and not to be put off by his busy-ness yet, and if it doesn't work out to keep that in mind for other guys too.
Good luck, and do keep us posted!
Moody, interesting and interested with or without a man
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