the babies dad is in her life but they are not together the man i am in love with is black and i am white that shouldnt matter i didnt mean for it to happen it just did he is good to me and her she didnt act liked it bothered her till she got pregant i have been seing him 18 months but if i ask him over she is mean to him i dont want to pick but she ask me to he ask me to go to mississippi with him to meet his mom and dad i dont know what to do i dont want to lose him
Wow - what a tough situation for you. Sorry you are so stressed and on mother's day, too.
I think you should have a heart to heart with your daughter and see if there is something specific he did to make her go so crazy. Maybe she sees something you don't?
I have a feeling that once she has her baby the focus will change and this problem will resolve itself - this could be something you have to work through - and if he is worth his salt he will be working with you and not against you.
You should set a boundary with her on treating him cordially - she doesn't have to like him and she doesn't have to like what you are doing but she has to have good manners and not be rude. It is time for you to put rules on her since she is older and living at home and having a baby there - she has to appreciate your help and help the house to run smoother.
Just let things take their course - try not to look at it like it is a life or death situation although I know your nerves are on edge. Perhaps if he spends less time there it will quiet things down, too?
thanks for answering me back i think i am going to mississippi life is to short and you only get one life to live i raised my daughter alone her father died in a car crash when she was little she never knew him until now he was the last man i loved until i met terry the love of my life she is 20 and has a life of her own life is to short i learned that when my 5 month old nephew died of sids 2 years ago 2 days before christmas and was living with me i cant let him go and i shouldnt have to thanks for the addvice
My goodness Angie you have been through a lot in your life and yes you certainly do deserve to have some enjoyment and happiness.
It sounds like your daughter is used to having you all to herself so perhaps there is a little jealousy of your relationship with Terry. I agree with the others that once this baby arrives that perhaps things will change.
thank you so much i really needed somebody on my side for once i think she is jealous because i am happy and right now she isnt i just hate fighting i had a talk with her and told her i wil not pick but this is my house and if she does not like it she may leave at any given time i am tired of all the fighting
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the babies dad is in her life but they are not together the man i am in love with is black and i am white that shouldnt matter i didnt mean for it to happen it just did he is good to me and her she didnt act liked it bothered her till she got pregant i have been seing him 18 months but if i ask him over she is mean to him i dont want to pick but she ask me to he ask me to go to mississippi with him to meet his mom and dad i dont know what to do i dont want to lose him
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Wow - what a tough situation for you. Sorry you are so stressed and on mother's day, too.
I think you should have a heart to heart with your daughter and see if there is something specific he did to make her go so crazy. Maybe she sees something you don't?
I have a feeling that once she has her baby the focus will change and this problem will resolve itself - this could be something you have to work through - and if he is worth his salt he will be working with you and not against you.
You should set a boundary with her on treating him cordially - she doesn't have to like him and she doesn't have to like what you are doing but she has to have good manners and not be rude. It is time for you to put rules on her since she is older and living at home and having a baby there - she has to appreciate your help and help the house to run smoother.
Just let things take their course - try not to look at it like it is a life or death situation although I know your nerves are on edge. Perhaps if he spends less time there it will quiet things down, too?
Angie, welcome to the board.
I'm sorry to hear there are problems, but you need to step back and look at the situation here.
My goodness Angie you have been through a lot in your life and yes you certainly do deserve to have some enjoyment and happiness.
It sounds like your daughter is used to having you all to herself so perhaps there is a little jealousy of your relationship with Terry. I agree with the others that once this baby arrives that perhaps things will change.
I completely agree with Rose!