My ex is getting married!!!

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Registered: 07-14-2003
My ex is getting married!!!
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Thu, 05-05-2005 - 1:27pm
My exh just called to say that he wanted to know if I was going to change my last name because he and his girlfriend are getting married next month! I told him that I am not changing my name because it matches our daughter's name. ( I am assuming the soon to be wife is having a problem with me keeping the name)I wished him congrats and reminded him that he hasn't paid child support - he wants to see our daughter this weekend - I said no, it's mother's day - he could see her next weekend - he said he would have to call me later about that (he has to check with gf/fiancee)
He actually called my mother except he told her that he might be getting married next month - the sob could never make up his mind. LOL! She wished him congrats too!
Hopefully this means that he will start a new family and leave me and my daughter alone! He is more hurtful when he is around!
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Registered: 05-25-2004
Thu, 05-05-2005 - 2:09pm

You poor thing - he sounds like such a dope. I agree with you that you should NOT change your last name - I have kept mine for the sake of my ds as well. I am glad to see you stand up for yourself to keep your child for mother's day.

I guess the least you can do is to say that some other poor unsuspecting soul will have to deal with him.

I hope that somehow you find peace and can move on to greener pastures. Keep us posted!!