My friends are so hilarious, NOT!!

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Registered: 04-24-2006
My friends are so hilarious, NOT!!
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Tue, 08-29-2006 - 10:20am
Ok so my friends kepttelling me this guy was coming over, I should meet him. So to give them some kicks I jumped in the shower to meet him. Well when he gets there I overhear my friend talking about me. Next thing I know she says say yeah, so he says you wanna go ride 4 wheelers or something I said sure. As soon as I get in this guys truck he starts feeling all over me, I was like woahhhh.... uummm... dont get the wrong impression about me but I'm not like that. So we go to his house ride 4 wheelers and I was like ok you can take me home, needless to say he was rubbing onme all night, not to mention he was extremely older than me. He says did they not tell you I was coming over I was like yeah but I wasn't toldI was going anywhere. They set me up..... Not only am I not answering this guys calls, because he wants me to move in... yes with my 3 kids. He has 5 acres a brand new truck he wants me to drive, but first he's too old, second he's not that great looking, that doesn't matter really though, but he'stouchy feely and not to mention his ex wide is still in the process of moving out, uggghhhh!!! How do I tell this guy no, without upsetting my friends in the process.
I have started hanging all over my 2 other guy friends and flirting just to kind of give my friends the idea,but help this guy is old, like 18 years older than me, he's almost as old as my parents. HELP!!!!!
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Registered: 03-31-2003
Tue, 08-29-2006 - 12:19pm

Wow, you call these people friends? My friends would NEVER tell some strange man to put his hands all over me while I was in an enclosed area EVER.

This is really simple. You say, I'm not interested. I don't know why my friends said such a thing. Then, do not answer the phone if he calls.

Not only are his actions inappropriate but gross. Have a serious talk with your friends or find some new ones. In fact, I wouldn't suggest hanging all over your friends to begin with. If they don't realize what they did is completely inappropriate then they probably don't realize you were on them to get the creep away.

Jennifer

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Registered: 04-24-2006
Tue, 08-29-2006 - 1:01pm
The one that set me up is a different one ( it's a girl ) than the ones I am hanging all over. She is about money money money and this guy has lots of it. I'm not about all of that, for one I'm not a gold digger and I want what's best in life for me and my kids but even she said she didn'tknow he would be all over me. I said yeah well he was and it was within minutes. I am still grossed out and feel nasty just form himtouching me. He grabbed me at one point and tried to kiss me and I pushed himoff real quick and said wwwwoooaaaahhh!!! My friend doesn't care one way or another she just thinks I should be with him for the money. Well no!!! And my guy friends think different, they like me and we kid around and I trust them to treat me well and they would never do such a thing without me asking, you know. The one is the guy I had been talking about who liked me but I had sworn off dating. He's the one I told if he wanted me so bad he could wait 6 months, I told him and he said you aren't easy is that what h e thought, and I said apparently. My friends are good people and they wanna see me happy but they are setting me up without my knowledge which would be fine if the guy was anywhere remotely close to my type. She said I should have told him I like to be respected and not treated that way. I said well I kinda did, he just wouldn't back off, it was the worst 4 hours of my life, never again......
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Registered: 10-07-2005
Tue, 08-29-2006 - 1:17pm

WOAH!!!


I would be VERY straight to your friends that you DO NOT appreciate their attempts to practically get you RAPED!


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Registered: 03-15-2004
Tue, 08-29-2006 - 5:34pm

You are worried about what your "FRIENDS" will think ????

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