My Man Rundown
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| Wed, 09-19-2007 - 10:57pm |
Hey... So i need to rundown my list of men... so that i can keep track...lol...
#1 is still Sean... after i told him NOT to call me at 3 am and i didn't answer those calls for a while... he started calling me sooner... He called at 12 am... last week Monday... and boy do i have a funny story about that night.. and then again this week at 12:30 am.. He's working out as an FWB so that's why he's at the top... i've been able to put the emotions in check.. which isn't hard when i don't see him outside the bedroom...lol... He calls about right when i'm done with work (about once a week).. i go to his house... have amazing sex.. sleep and then have amazing morning sex.. then i get home in time to get my son ready for school... Sean has an awesome body.. he reminds me of the guy from Jag...
#2 is GoofyGuy - He's got boyfriend potential.. because he's so goofy. i feel like his friend, yet i'm attracted too. I like that we had fun hanging out and made each other laugh. Haven't heard from him since sunday night... He may or may not be interested... we'll see.... i successfully resisted calling or texting him.. my thoughts at this point is to let him chase me.
#3 is Jimmy - he's sorta still on the list.. he may be interested but too shy for me. Ultimately, i'm still his friend...
#4 is Bartender Butt - He's just soooo cute... When i go to the bar, he went from saying "hi beautiful" to "hi gorgeous" and he always hooks me up with the good drinks....lol... And checking out his butt still cheers me up!
#5 is a guy who's been emailing me - i haven't given him a nickname yet... we've exchanged a few emails... he says i've really intrigued him.... i share my goofy stories with him and haven't scared him off yet.. i'm guessing if he's interested, he'll eventually want to meet IRL.
#6 is the new hire - Not sure if he's in a new relationship but i heard that he broke up with his previous girlfriend. He'll probably start work in the next couple weeks. I've worked with him before but he was in a different department, changed jobs, and now he's about to come back.... Even if he is in a new romantic relationship, i'm going to be working very closely with him.. probably go to coworker parties together (well not together together)....the chance to become close friends is there... i'm looking forward to it...
#7 is Sam - he's sooo cute... if GoogyGuy didn't show up for spades, i would have texted Sam next.. i remember him saying he loves to play spades.
#8 is Eagle - but i haven't heard from him since i gave him my number... and i didn't get his.
#9 is Florida - he's an old boyfriend.. my first love... we've stayed in touch all these years.. he's like an old penny that will never go away.. i still enjoy flirting with him...
#10 is Michigan - he had such a bright smile. i got his number but never called.... and since he's this far down the list, i may never call him...d'oh
So that's my update on the top 10... single life is good right now... and since it's raining all these men, i don't feel obsessed over one guy.. which is turning out to be very healthy for me... Maybe in a couple weeks, i'll reevaluate my top 10 and see if anything changes... or see if anyone really rises above the others.
Loonybunny

Holy potato!
I can't remember ever having 10 guys on the line!
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Holy Moly! I can't find one prospect, much less 10. Maybe I don't know where to look.
I see you all have pictures added to your profiles. What a bunch of beauties. I have to figure out how to do mine.
Thanks for the encouragement.
I don't see any of them as potential for a long-term meaningful thing... but maybe that's just me?
I appreciate your feedback... however i disagree that having fun with the toys is a bad thing... I think it's a good thing that i'm not uptight about find the ONE but instead enjoy the many people around me.... I also think it's quite the opposite about missing the real man... Why? Because you cannot tell who's the real man and who isn't at first glance.... Email guy (for example) may not be that intriguing at this point but he could turn out to be later... i wouldn't know if i dropped him after the first couple emails....
However, i do agree that it's not like my rundown was of the caliber of The Bachelor or something.... I'm enjoying being a single woman in my 30's who has joy that radiates from within.
Again, i appreciate the feedback... and i like the new photo.
Loonybunny
Well, if you're just having fun and not ready for serious, then by ALL MEANS play it up! :P LOL!
I admire the fact that you can keep up with all of them! LOL If this were me, I'd be stumbling all over myself trying to remember names, occupations and what was going on the last time I saw them.
Emma..more of a one person at a time kinda gal just because she can't remember things!
Normally, i'm a 2-3 at a time kind of gal... that way i don't get too attached or too disappointed with just one.. but more than 10... oh boy... it is tough.. but i'm not complaining... (and i've narrowed it down a bit here lately).
I've definately learned from a few of my mistakes... like not texting several guys to meet me at the same place. d'oh. that got ugly last time...
Here was my old theory.. i was afraid to look like i was with ONE guy and therefore i was standoffish to ALL guys... Like i wouldn't want to be seen dancing with someone for fear that other guys would think i was taken.. Well, that theory isn't right... And the opposite is turning out to be true (for most guys)... when they see me dancing and having fun with one, they apparently feel like they want to get to know me....
This happened at the birthday party this weekend. I said hello to CP and Blacky saw that and picked up his game... But at the same time, Blacky said he thought i WAS married or taken.. and he was slightly intimidated by seeing me talk to "several big guys" he said. I told him i'm single, smiled at him and asked if he was single, too.
I'm actually hoping Blacky does call me for that date... BUT i told him, hey if you change your mind, i'm cool with that... With Blacky, i felt good that he was definately moving things along ..unlike with Jimmy... And i didn't offer up my number or try to get his... He asked me for my number.
So... now my list has narrowed pretty much to the two i met at the party.... (but i still have the others filed in my brain).
Loonybunny
ps Blacky is the foot rub guy and i picked that nickname because of his black hair... i totally love black hair.