My new BF is going to visit his son?
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| Mon, 11-03-2008 - 1:50am |
I have been dating a great guy for about seven months, and he has a son who lives on the opposite coast from us. He is going back to see his son, who is only two. His son's mother refuses to let his son come stay with him, so his only option is to go back east to visit his son. What bothers me is that he had made plans to go back there, and stay with a friend, but now his friend is no longer an option to stay with. He already bought his plane ticket, and he is still going, but he is planning on staying with his son's mother. He swears that he will be staying on the couch...but I don't know what to do. I want to trust him, but not sure if I do? I certainly don't trust her, because he has showed me some of the text messages she has sent him. What would you do?
He was upfront with me when his plans changed and let me know that he would be staying with her. Had he not told me that I would have never known he was staying with her. He swears things between them are over and done with, but I am just uncomfortable with the situation. At the same time, there isn't much I can do...he is going either way. So what do I do? My only option is to break up with him...and I don't want to be presumptuous and dump him for an act he hasn't committed....but at the same time am I being naive for thinking this is innocent?

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I'm on AL with this one....NEXT!!! who the heck needs all that drama. Find a guy who is done with his exw and she with him. It makes life so much easier.
Hugs, I know this isn't easy but I really think for the best
JL
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