My single world.........

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My single world.........
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Mon, 01-21-2008 - 10:04am

Ok, so it's been almost two weeks since I broke up with Nascar. A tough two weeks. At first I didn't miss him, because I was so angry, but as time goes by, I really miss him. It really sucks, because I know no matter how much I miss him, it doesn't change the fact that we just didn't fit with the whole kids thing. I could have somehow maybe have learned to deal with the other

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Wed, 01-23-2008 - 11:50am

May I suggest that you just tell him the truth, i.e. that you were caught off guard by his invitation and that you changed your mind because you are not ready?


We are all adults (whatever THAT means LOL!) and I think it is a matter of respect to the other person to acknowledge that they can handle refusal and take care of themselves.

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Wed, 01-23-2008 - 11:59am

Ahhhh does my old heart good to hear younger women-older men stories here *grin*


Our third date(?) was at this movie that showed the 1964 New York World's Fair.

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Wed, 01-23-2008 - 3:16pm

I agree about the age difference.

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Thu, 01-24-2008 - 7:04pm
I work with two women that married older men.
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Thu, 01-24-2008 - 7:08pm

"What a deal!"

You are funny - maybe she is glad he is out of her hair?

They say you get what you negotiate - right?! LOL!!

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Thu, 01-24-2008 - 7:11pm
Actually no!
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Thu, 01-24-2008 - 7:44pm
That seems to be a strange arrangement. Just goes to show - grass is not always greener on the other side. You will have to get more of the story for us. LOL!!
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Sat, 01-26-2008 - 12:42pm
How are you doing now Cat? How is the new dog? Was hoping maybe things were getting a little better. Maybe we can even get some fun dog pix!!
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Sat, 01-26-2008 - 5:05pm
Things are going well. I went out with someone I recently met at the grocery store. Just for a drink but it was really nice. He called me last night when I was out with my gay friend Tracy and called me again this morning, so I guess he seems somewhat interested. I'm not ready for a relationship or anything, but the occasional date is nice. I didn't go out with my colleague but dropped the hint that I was meeting someone the night before and that he was nice. I have to send you dog pics. I'll try to get some tonight and send them to you tonight.
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Sat, 01-26-2008 - 5:08pm

Okay - good!

How did you meet the one at the grocery store? This should be a good story - and maybe a lesson on how to chat someone up in the grocery store?

Did you see my tips from the new book I am reading - it says never give up!! LOL!!

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